What I Like and Don’t Like

By Kendra Holliday | November 25, 2015

Guys We Fucked podcast!

Guys We Fucked podcast!

Someone told me about Guys We Fucked, an anti-slut-shaming podcast hosted by two female comics. I recommend it – they tackle all kinds of heavy shit like abortion, sex work, molestation, rape – AND they make it funny!

Recently, they had porn star Stoya on their show, and one of the things they mentioned was how porn stars negotiate their scenes. They let their co-stars and crew know what they like and don’t like. They said, “Wouldn’t it be nice if everyone had that list available for potential partners?”

I agree! SO, here is my list of what I like and don’t like – I’d love to see yours!

I DON’T like

eagerness
cockiness
entitlement
wham-bam-fuck-you-ma’am
negative energy
rudeness
being raped
stinky cologne
bad breath
being molested or violated
tongue jammed in my ear
nipples tweaked, pinched or pulled
when someone absent-mindedly strokes my nipples while we are lying in bed talking
being bit in general, but especially my mouth, breasts, or clit
going straight for my breasts and pussy, bypassing the rest of my body
being fingered without lube
being finger banged, especially without warm up
inexperienced groping
ignorant pussy rubbing – I don’t like having my urethra scrubbed!
immediate pounding sex – I like being warmed up
fucking for an hour
big dicks
cum in my eye
cum in my mouth
cold play/being cold
face slapping
PSE (porn star experience)Β sex
porn star moves
late night sex
eating before sex

Lube galore from Lucky Bloke

Lube galore from Lucky Bloke

I DO like

It's good to go sexy and slow.

It’s good to go sexy and slow.

confidence
mutual respect
sexiness
intelligence
creativity
patience
humor
intimacy
pleasure
connection
CONSENT
positive energy
sex with women (female energy)
sex with men (male energy)
gender blending
good hygiene
safer sex (condoms!)
body hair
body worship
being touched all over (I’m not ticklish)
hair being played with or pulled
direct stimulation on the clit
having my clit sucked
warming up to vigorous sex
gentle caressing and sucking of breasts
shoulder rubbing
massage
being bathed

Succulent

Succulent

my underarms caressed
public sex
dirty talk
porn
orgasms
negotiated pain/scenes
crying
FEELING
contrast
taking it slow
taking turns
69
face sitting
handjobs (I call it “the angel handshake” πŸ™‚ )
roleplay
erotic humiliation
lingerie
TOYS
being spanked
sensation play
hearing someone cum
watching someone cum
watching
being watched
pearl showers on breasts/belly/torso
warm play, being warm
oral sex – giving and receiving
anticipating sex
vanilla sex
foreplay
coreplay
threesomes
play parties
exploring goal-free sex/pleasure/tantra
overcoming challenges/adapting around disability
exploring Dom/sub dynamics (I’m naturally submissive but can switch)
a lover who knows how to be selfish AND giving
GFE (girlfriend experience) sex
being left wanting more
exploring anal on you
exploring a fun, creative fetish
trying new things for someone, or offering a special or “first” experience
finishing with doggy style
sex before eating
morning/daytime/early evening sex

UPDATE: After reading the tweet below, you especially need to listen to the podcast above…

Comments

Vince 2015-11-27 23:58:33

I give it slow, nice, and gentle before getting passionate. I kiss and lick the lips, both cheeks, chin, neck, and slowly down – -breasts, navel and then the thighs. I kiss and lick the inner thighs before going to the cunt. I don’t eat the vagina. I just lick, kiss and sip. I don’t use my finger either. I just let my tongue and mouth do the action.

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    Vince 2015-11-28 00:00:58

    Of course, I always make sure that I just got out of the shower before doing everything. I want to get into action feeling fresh and absolutely clean. I owe it to her.

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