Boundaries and Balance

By Kendra Holliday | April 11, 2023

SMILE!

Three is my magic number.

I was born 3-23-73.

I’m really good at threesomes. 🙂

I have sacred feminine triangles all over my body – my hairy underarms and pubic hair represents one; my breasts and belly represent another.

I find that my life is best balanced when I’m nurturing these three things:

Professional career – represented by my site Be Open and Honest

Personal life – represented by this blog!

Philanthropic endeavors – represented by Sex Positive St. Louis, my all-volunteer community organization

Sometimes, things get out of whack, and my personal life suffers, or my volunteer efforts lag, but I’ve found that the best way to keep things balanced is to ENFORCE MY BOUNDARIES.

I know my boundaries, but they’re forever being pushed by other people and forces, and it’s exhausting! They don’t mean to do it, but that’s life as a sex worker whose motto is: NEVER BORED.

Here are some examples of my boundaries:

  • I won’t commit to sharing intimate space with people sight unseen.
  • I always use condoms with intercourse. I don’t let random men rub their penis on my vulva.
  • I don’t allow cum in my mouth. I don’t swallow.
  • I don’t receive anal. It’s not an erogenous zone for me. But I’ll gladly give it! 😉
  • I do things on my own terms. If someone contacts me and wants to work with me but doesn’t want to follow my guidelines, then I don’t work with them. I have my protocols in place for a reason – mainly, to keep me safe.

It’s funny, but I find that the more I put out there, the more some people expect. For instance, I post a Panty of the Day pic on Twitter, and I’ll have men send me Direct Messages asking for more free pics.

When I shaved my head back in 2011 and started growing it back, I had shaved head fetish men DEMAND I shave my head again!

I guess some men see a beacon of open female energy and think it’s a good source to tap. But you don’t want to drain it dry!

Yes, female energy is renewable, but it has to be rationed. The more you push for female energy, the more you push it AWAY.

I’d like to suggest that you be grateful for what is offered, and if you want more, give something back in return.

I get a lot of long emails from people asking for advice. I try to respond to as many as I can with a brief reply offering a quick suggestion or resource, and tell them if they’d like to discuss it in more depth, they can schedule a consult with me.

My time, energy, and expertise are valuable. I know not everyone can afford to book appointments, so that is why I share great info on Twitter daily, post lots of free content here on this blog, and host events, most of which are free.

Thank you for understanding my position, and I’m glad you are here to soak up my good female energy!

Ahhh….

 

Comments

RYAN BEERS 2020-08-31 09:17:37

hmm.. my question to you is WHY ON EARTH DID/WOULD YOU SHAVE YOUR HEAD ‍♂️..!!??

Reply

    Kendra Holliday 2020-08-31 17:08:40

      Curtis Jay 2020-12-03 13:30:15

      You are a beautiful woman and have a lot of sex appeal and im sexual attracted to you. I lost my lovely wife of 20 years, 4 years ago and I’m lonely and horny and I desperately want to FUCK a hairy pussy. I live alone and it’s very frustrating, because my wife and I had a fantastic sex life. I have never met anyone before or after her, that compares to her in bed. I would love to have a personal chat with you. Bye for now

      Reply

      Hector 2023-04-21 20:21:50

      Have you thought of shaving it again and finding a wig that looks exactly like your old hair so no one can tell you shaved it? I’d like to see that. Will you consider it?

      Reply

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