By Kendra Holliday | March 11, 2021
Lately, I’ve taken to calling sex toys “pleasure tools,” as it seems a more accurate description.
As you probably know, I offer sex-positive consultations, in which I offer feedback and suggestions for a healthier, happier life. Of course all of my oftentimes unconventional advice is take it or leave it, but I always feel pleased when a person actually takes my advice and DOES THE WORK, i.e., reads the books, listens to the podcasts, and procures the pleasure tools I recommend.
One such man is a lumberjack up in New England. We’ve been enjoying monthly online sessions during the pandemic. He’s looked into my mentors Joan Price and Barbara Carrellas, and has even signed up for classes and expanded his pleasure tool collection. Honestly, he’s shared as many resources with me as I have with him. My favorite relationships are the kind where we learn and grow together. (If you aren’t able to book sessions with me, you can always get free ideas from reading this blog or following me on twitter.)
He saw a review of Aneros prostate massagers on here and decided to get one. Not long after that, he upgraded to a vibrating version called Vice 2. He reported such stunning sensations, I asked him to write a guest post review of it. Here it is!
“I first learned of Aneros from Kendra. I had shared with her during one of our online sessions that I sometimes felt a wonderful tingling sensation around my anus as I felt myself leading up to climax. Not very macho sounding, but true all the same. She suggested I read a blog post that her partner had written about the Aneros. So I did and I followed a link to the Aneros website.
(I want to take a moment to say that if you are not hiring Kendra for some online fun and sexy conversation, you are missing out!)
I didn’t buy one right away, as I didn’t think it was right for me – the only times I’ve ever had something up my ass was during a medical procedure or that one time I got a lingam massage. The Tantrica offered to massage my prostate and I said I was willing to give it a try. I didn’t really enjoy it, through no fault on her part; she was great. The lingam massage overall was amazing, just not that anal penetration part. I figured that sort of thing wasn’t for me.
One thing from the Aneros website that did catch my eye was the therapeutic side of their products and since I’m in my mid-fifties and on Flomax (tamsulosin) for my prostate, I kept thinking about it. One thing about Flomax is that as a side effect it can dry up your semen and that, my friends, SUCKS. Not being able to actually ejaculate while still orgasming is very unsatisfying for me. So I decided to purchase one to see if it would help. I ordered the Helix SYN Trident.
Once it arrived, I was excited to give it a try. It felt okay, but nothing special from a male “P Spot” point of view. But based on my previous experience, I didn’t expect that for myself. I decided to keep using it for the therapeutic aspect. Uhh, it sure did!!
After using it three or four times the first week, I noticed more ejaculate when I came and harder erections (as Kendra has witnessed!) I was QUITE happy about this and figured I was getting my money’s worth from the device.
That said, after a couple months I thought I would try Aneros’ VICE 2. The Vice 2 is a rechargeable vibrating prostate massager that has a bunch of preloaded vibrating patterns. It has a wireless remote control, making it easy to change the patterns and sensations.
Once it arrived, I set it up to charge for the recommended two hours and scheduled a solo date with myself to try it out. Once that puppy was charged, I lubed it up and got ready to see if I could in fact experience a male P-Spot orgasm.
Spoiler alert: YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!
I was initially a little intimidated by how much bigger this model was than the HELIX SYN, but lubed up it went in okay. I then turned it on and hit the button to try the first pattern and almost jumped out of my skin at how surprisingly GOOD the vibration felt on my prostate! I cycled through some of the other settings; there are 18 in all, and they all felt good but some felt GREAT, plus it has four intensity settings. I ended up having two FULL BODY ORGASMS, each lasting for ten seconds or so. These two orgasms didn’t involve my penis, but after I started stroking myself, I got VERY hard and eventually, I had a mind blowing genital orgasm. It was an hour well spent!
I love the VICE 2 it is without a doubt the best sex toy I have used, and combining that with the health benefits of having your prostate massaged, it’s a no brainer in my book. I can’t recommend the Aneros VICE2 enough, especially if you are experiencing an enlarged prostate, which most older men do at some point.
Something that is good for your health and gives you incredibly intense pleasure – come on! What’s not to love about that?! (Seriously, read this article for more info on prostate health!)”