3 Things Men Should Leave in 2017

By Kendra Holliday | January 13, 2018

My latest unsolicited cock shot experience was one of the things that inspired my dear brother from another mother, David Wraith, to shoot this excellent video:

Listen to him explain why it is a bad idea to:

    1. Send unsolicited cock shots
    2. Catcall
    3. Mansplain

David is a local sex educator and one of the co-founders of Sex Positive St Louis, a not-for-profit organization we founded in 2010 in order to create safe spaces for people to explore their sexuality in a positive, constructive, shame-free zone. There should be an org like this in EVERY city!

We usually host about four events a month, and I have a few in the queue to create. Stay tuned for talks on asexuality, dating, and polyamory! Check our calendar for updates.


David 2018-01-14 23:44:17

Thank you for sharing my video, Kendra. And thank you for sharing your personal experiences so that they can become teachable moments.


AlanK 2018-01-15 14:39:58

Vanessa de Largie, whose work you may know, feels exactly the way you do about dick pics and has posted on her site the instruction (tongue firmly in cheek, of course) that all dick pics must have on the subject line the size and girth. I offered to send her a picture of DICK Nixon. She laughed.


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