The Beautiful Kind: Safe Haven for Perverts
Filed under: Deserving - August 30, 2008 @ 1:00 pmThe other day white boy Lokey (YATBK next week!!) posted this comment on the blog:
I just discovered a new fantasy: I want to fuck a black chick and have her act like a slave doing her southern masters bidding.
I dropped him a line letting him know the comment went over well (even Goddess Glory was conjured!) and Lokey replied:
Fuck! I thought I’d catch all kinds of shit over that comment. Sounds racist, but it comes from years of living as a white man in the south. Southern whites are stereotypically racist in nature and I get sooooo sick of that shit. My ancestors were poor farm hands…they didn’t own slaves. It’d be nice to get some of that aggression out of my system by playing the role of slave owner and whipping my lil black slave slut into orgasmic submission.
It’s funny, but The Beautiful Kind has turned into a safe haven for perverts. I feel like you can talk about ANYTHING on here and people will accept you.
I can’t get over all the unconditional positive regard. Such a sweet community of open-minded folks, makes my heart swell with pride.
And man, am I updating my fetish checklist weekly. 
August 30th, 2008 at 1:59 pm
How about fucking a Jewish chick while wearing a Hitler mask/uniform?
August 30th, 2008 at 2:07 pm
Reminds me of an Emo Philips quote: “Women: You can’t live with them, and you can’t get them to dress up in a skimpy little Nazi costume and beat you with a warm squash.”
August 30th, 2008 at 2:19 pm
I wonder if there is a point where the audience gets too perverted? Since I am sexually miles behind some of your readers, I wonder wherein lie my fetishes and perversions that others would scoff or puke at. So if I were to try one fetish, what would you suggest?
August 30th, 2008 at 2:49 pm
HOLY SHIT DOR!!! Last night I was watching a movie and this scene flashed up with giant Swastika banners and shiny vinyl boots and I thought “fuck I’d love to screw another (I am ethnically) Jew wrapped up in a flag like that.” It just turned me on so hard I don’t actually even remember watch I was watching anymore.
The black slave bit was pretty kink too… especially thinking about the girl you’d have to find who’d be totally cool with that. I like it!
NewWrldYankee start with dominating your woman… it opens so many lovely avenues. It has for me at least… but my woman gets off on it.
August 30th, 2008 at 3:00 pm
NWY - I’d go with an oral sex fetish, that is a crowd pleaser. You should fill out my fetish checklist!
http://www.thebeautifulkind.com/2008/02/11/the-beautiful-kinds-ultimate-bdsm-fetish-kink-checklist/
and you should figure out if you’re dom or sub.
Also, a boot fetish is always good. My hair fetish has been easy and great to fulfill - guys always tell me how nice it is to meet a woman who likes a hairy chest. And I love my braids and playing with hair… ok off to party…
August 30th, 2008 at 5:14 pm
I have a hairy chest TBK
August 30th, 2008 at 8:15 pm
My fetish would be boring as hell to the people here, but I’m happy to know that you guys wouldn’t be all: Do WHAT? That’s so weird!
You probably wouldn’t get it, since it’s not actively sexual, but you’d accept it. And that’s what’s cool about this place. I give this site a big Asexual Gold Star.
August 31st, 2008 at 1:27 am
When I read Lokey’s comment last week, I found myself wishing I had dark skin and a “Massa” to command my every action… but I am a pervert, what can I say? My fet/kink list is too expanding by leaps and bounds these days.
@Chaos- Your woman? I am going to have to get all switch-y on your ass if you refer to me like that on a regular basis! Unless you lovingly start referring to me as your little slut… then we will be a’ight.
@TBK- Yes, he (Chaos) does a lovely hairy chest. I fell asleep, sweaty and sticky, collapsed in a puddle o’ Rapunzel after he spanked me wonderfully tonight.
@Sex-Pos- So what’s your fetish? Come one… share. This is a safe place.
August 31st, 2008 at 2:34 am
Um… Not to drag down the fun, but I have to say, this didn’t make me feel safe in my perviness. I’ve spent 28 of my 31 years in Texas. I’m familiar with the racist rep the south has, and have a similar “my ancestors had nothing to do with slavery” background as Lokey (my direct ancestors only go back about 125 years in the US). I’m not trying to judge anyone, either, but I can’t help but feel there’s a major difference between “this might be fun to roleplay with a black woman who’s down” and “people treat me like I’m racist, so I’d like to find a willing black chick to beat on.”
August 31st, 2008 at 7:43 am
What makes me think that you are inspired to dig deeper into the kink to find new and different ways to shock us?
August 31st, 2008 at 7:51 am
@TACL- Yes, there is a HUGE difference between someone who would get off on the role playing aspect and an out and out racist. Agreed. And I think everyone here is looking at it from the fetish/kink/role playing stance. I know I am.
I had a cross burned in my front yard because I “dared” to talk to a black boy when in high school living in Louisiana. I’ve witnessed racism, bigotry and deep seated hate that stems only from the color of one’s skin. It is an ugliness that I absolutely abhor and have no problem with calling out that kind of unacceptable behavior. I don’t get off on the KKK. Role playing is another thing though.
August 31st, 2008 at 9:36 am
Yeah I don’t think anybody here is looking to get off on degrading a black woman… or man for that matter. It’s all in good fun, based on something real that we all know happened. I know for me that when the playing was all done I’d snuggle up with my chocolate bunny and love her and hug her and call her George.
- Rapunzel aka blueridgemariposa Yes my little slut.
August 31st, 2008 at 10:00 am
TACL–I totally understand how it sounds…that’s why I thought I would catch a lot of shit over making the comment. I’ve always looked at fetishes/fantasies as a means of stepping out of your everyday persona and into one that expresses or releases your innermost desires and/or frustrations…a catharsis of sorts.
I grew up watching my dad occasionally beat the shit out of my mom and as a result I could never abuse a woman, but sometimes during sex something deep down inside me clicks and makes me want to experience the frame of mind of someone who could physically abuse a woman. Slapping, pulling hair, choking, simulated rape….all these help me to experience those darkest of feelings without the negative results.
That’s where the “slave/master” fantasy comes into play also. It’s not a form of retaliation, but a form of learning. About myself and others. I want to feel what Thomas Jefferson may have felt when he was sliding his cock into the ass of his lil black slave maid…knowing he owned that ass and there was nothing she could do about it. I wanna crack a whip on a cute little black ass for pleasure and find out if I could just as easily do such a thing out of hatred or anger. I wanna know if I would feel remorse after treating a black woman in such a manner.
Of course, I would never do any of these things unless it was with a black woman who was 100% without a doubt comfortable in playing the role. And I would have to be just as comfortable in my role.
I once got so aggressive during sex that I got carried away and found myself literally trying to hurt the woman I was fucking by pounding my dick into her as hard as I could. I wanted my dick to explode from her abdomen in a shower of blood and guts and sperm, spit on her remains and wipe my dick on her hair as I left the room. She had pushed my buttons quite a bit prior to the sex and some of that anger was still bouncing around inside there. She never uttered a word of complaint, but I was so disgusted with myself that it made me nauseous.
I imagine the slave fantasy would have a similar result.
August 31st, 2008 at 10:00 am
Sorry TBK…didn’t mean for that to be so long.
August 31st, 2008 at 10:18 am
Lokey, you are awesome honey. You mindreader, you - I’m posting about how HEALTHY BDSM is later this week.
August 31st, 2008 at 11:03 am
Wow, Lokey. That’s some powerful shit.
@Rapunzel: It’s called Pageism, which I found the word in Richard von Krfft-Ebing’s Psychopathia Sexualis (excellent book). It’s a sort of masochism-lite, I suppose, since it’s to be the page of an older woman. I blame it on my first crush being on my English teacher when I was fourteen. I just wanted to do all her bidding and be endlessly useful to her; it never occurred to me to want to sleep with her, though she was quite lovely. And every woman I’ve wanted to ’serve’ since then has resembled her in several ways.
‘Did I do an all right job with that filing, ma’am?’
‘Yes, it was outstanding.’
::swoon::
That’s right, I’m still fourteen. … Sixteen years later.
August 31st, 2008 at 10:07 pm
Sex-Pos - :swoon: We’re *all* still just fourteen. Love you.
September 1st, 2008 at 9:21 am
@Sex-Pos So glad you shared. I think I could totally get into that. But I am the witchy woman with the cougar eyes.
September 1st, 2008 at 1:24 pm
Sex-Pos, nothing wrong with that!! Nothing wrong with being 14 in spirit, either!
Every fetish doesn’t have to involve dead bodies and beatings, whatever turns you on is good.
Myself I have a fetish for boxer shorts, who knows why, but if I guy I like takes his pants down and he’s wearing boxers he has to mop me up off the floor!!
September 2nd, 2008 at 5:55 am
Pageism is new to me! I want to learn more about it…
September 3rd, 2008 at 1:55 pm
I’ll happily answer any questions I can. (I think you’ve already emailed me about it, though.)