Fuck You: Update
Filed under: Fuck You - August 26, 2008 @ 1:00 pmB Diddle - Closer…
Rev. Lion - STILL haven’t had a chance to reconnect!
Lokey - He might be coming in town next month…
The Virgin - We’re rendezvousing this weekend! He WILL be the next one!
Tom - Soon, my dear…
Manj
blueridgemariposa - Oh, the things you have in store for me…
Sapph
Chiavata
Sunday - This Sunday I’ll be posting some hot erotica written by her…
Fallen Angel - She told me she is “quivering with anticipation.” I am, too…we just need to quiver together…
Big Boy
OH and by the way. For anyone who is set to get with me, a word to the wise: My tits require TLC. Once I’m all fired up, I don’t mind if you’re rough with them, but when first starting out, treat them like fragile tea cups.
Am I weird on this? Do most women like their tits grabbed and groped and sucked hard right off the bat? Maybe it’s cuz I was a stripper and got manhandled so damn much. I didn’t like my breasts touched AT ALL for two years after that. Poor me.
August 26th, 2008 at 1:26 pm
No not weird at all. I remember this one guy was with kept looking at my breasts and saying beautiful over and over - and being really gentle with them. I wasn’t used to it at first and bit miffed, but it is so much better that way when starting, then the guy who start grabbing and pinching right away…though that can be good later, very good in fact. I felt so …goddess like with all his care.
August 26th, 2008 at 1:35 pm
You’re not alone. Starting out rough pretty much kills my mood.
August 26th, 2008 at 1:36 pm
i love for my nipples to be pinched, but i too have to get warmed up first. doing straight to that is a turn off unless i say before they get touched at all that is what i want with the first touch.
August 26th, 2008 at 1:49 pm
Oh Sweet Jesus! You are actually getting together with blueridgemariposa? You’re going to wash away the town with your tasty veggie, vaginal, fragrent, female, fluids. Tell us how the Phoenix tastes.
Re: breasts. I’m going to go out on a limb and say that must be Standard Operating Procedure. Handle with care.
August 26th, 2008 at 2:16 pm
I agree with Capn Marrrrk, Blueridgemariposa was the one I was so anxious to hear about, her tattoo drives me wild.
And, as for breasts, I love mine manhandled, sucked hard, pulled, smacked, bitten, all of it, right away or durring sex is always great. I do think though that it is rare for that, I thought all women loved it till I was playing with a couple of girls tits and they commented that I got right to town, I took it as a hint and gently had my way, then after warming up they wanted it rough, he he.
~Joy~
August 26th, 2008 at 2:16 pm
Oh yes, dear Capn, I am going to lay with the beautiful blueridge phoenix rapunzel… did you know I have a glass dildo that is dedicated to her?
http://www.thebeautifulkind.com/2007/02/13/mariposa-azul/
And SO many guys (and gals!) don’t handle breasts with care! They are Grabby Guses and Pinchy Petes trying to tune in Tokyo. Sometimes I’ll grab their chests all harsh-like in response and ask, how do you like it? And wow, they don’t.
August 26th, 2008 at 2:19 pm
What’s the Frequency Kenneth?
It could be a hold over technique from trying to get through the bra.
August 26th, 2008 at 2:23 pm
Re: Mariposa. Oooooooh! Blue Butterfly, “Butterfly”, BlueRidge. At least that part. Yowza!
Next up on the list: why “Rapunzel” has short hair. My guess is Prince Charming didn’t climb up the tower so she let herself out.
ps: sorry for the extra post I should learn not to hit submit so fast.
August 26th, 2008 at 4:28 pm
Yes she was totally her own Prince Charming, and now she’s a liberated woman so she keeps it nice and short.
August 26th, 2008 at 4:30 pm
Gadammet… following in Capn Marrrrk’s footsteps
I’ve only ever met one woman who liked her nipples tweaked good from the beginning, but then again she’s also the only woman I’ve ever met who had nipple originating orgasms…. god that was fun!
August 26th, 2008 at 4:41 pm
Oh my DEAR chaoslost, you just tweaked my proverbial nipple - I have TWO upcoming posts on this subject - one is super odd (freakshow!!!), and the other is SUPER HOT.
August 26th, 2008 at 5:07 pm
First of all, I’m now just a bit hooked on this blog, which is a first for me.
I, personally, have always loved playing with breasts. I know, it’s not exactly an unique thing for a guy. Still, I think I have an appreciation for them. I have been with girls who like their breasts treated like gentle flowers and others who have ordered me to “bite down and pull”. Me, I think of myself as a good listener more than anything. So I think starting off gentle and working your way up is the way to go, at least on the first go.
I mean, if you’re with the same person for a while and you know they like their nipples to be treated like gummy worms, then dive right in and go to town, I’m all for that. Still, I find that variety is the spice of life. I recently discovered that I actually love having my nipples played with, not nurple style, but a gentle pinch or a flicking tongue drives me wild. It walks that perfect line between ticklish and tremendous.
Also, I remember there was one girl who had one of the loudest orgasms I’ve ever heard from my simply running my tongue slowly around the outside of her nipple as I sucked softly…mmmm, memories.
August 26th, 2008 at 6:39 pm
I can’t wait! Both sound great.
Westley200 So you knew Amy too?
August 26th, 2008 at 6:51 pm
My name isn’t Amy.
August 26th, 2008 at 7:07 pm
Breasts are amazing. I don’t discriminate. You should see my “O” face. Love to all.
August 26th, 2008 at 7:29 pm
Westley200 says: “I’m now just a bit hooked on this blog, which is a first for me.”
Welcome to MY world!
August 26th, 2008 at 7:33 pm
Please nail Vcarded and don’t let him punk out on the it.
August 26th, 2008 at 7:36 pm
Erm… how do we get on this list?
August 26th, 2008 at 7:41 pm
Yes, orgasm by nipple play. Ahhhh, some of my favorite orgasms happen that way. Start soft and work up to the intense actions of biting, pinching and sucking.
It’s not any different than trying to shove something in the vagina without proper maiden oil or lube, that just plain hurts.
August 26th, 2008 at 8:54 pm
a list of conquests and a list of desired conquests.
AND having fun at the same time…
amazing reading
August 26th, 2008 at 9:42 pm
Look at all the fun you guys have had while I was busy at work!
Cap’n- Do you think TBK would jest about getting together with anyone off her F-U list? And yes, my Prince Charming turned out to be a toad. And no matter how many times I kissed him, he was nothing more than a toad. Out of the tower I climbed, rode off into the sunset to find the world anew.
Joy- You aren’t the only one who is anxious!
RBG- Maiden oil… I like that!
August 26th, 2008 at 9:51 pm
As stated before, my nipples aren’t typically very sensitive. That’s part of why they’re pierced. And I love rough breast play, but the more thought I give to this topic the more I realize like nearly everything else in life (and sex), it’s a mood thing.
I once came to orgasm with nothing more, nothing less, than an extended period of attention paid to one nipple. I was fully clothed, his hand under my shirt. There was no kissing, no other fondling, and it was just two fingers on my left nipple. That was a session that started slowly, gently, and built over the course of 15 minutes or so and I was shocked that it made me cum. Maybe the eye contact that was held throughout the interaction was actually the impetus for orgasm but either way, it was phenomenal.
My initial reaction to this post was “hell yeah, play with my tits, hard!” but the more I think on it, the more I realize my true response is still escaping me, because of that mood thing. Being gently kissed and touched and nibbled all over my entire body is just as exciting as being grabbed unexpectedly by the hair and dragged to the bedroom or being bitten on the back of the neck combined with a firm reach-around grab of my breasts.
My bottom line appears to be that communication is of the utmost importance between sexual partners. For that matter, I commend Beautiful on having brought this question (and answer) to our attention in the first place! Working those damned kinks out and being able to express your desires, mood by mood and moment by moment, is by far the best way to make the most of a sexual encounter.
(p.s. - TBK? Good Girl, for withholding my erotica until Sunday. Nicely done).
August 26th, 2008 at 10:49 pm
YES! Sunday, that is an amazing response. What I really connected to was what you said about eye contact. It’s such a small detail and yet there is so much power in it. To be gently playing with a nipple or eating out someone or thrusting slowly or riding wildly, it’s the eye contact that makes the connection. It’s that look that let’s everyone know “I want you”, three words that mean so much more than their parts.
August 26th, 2008 at 10:54 pm
Personally I have to agree with the work up to it part and actually I have been brought to orgasm without even being touched. But for me sex tends to be more mental anyway.
August 26th, 2008 at 11:04 pm
Where do you keep finding these people who will manhandle your tits? I’m all about the pinching and the biting — right off the bat — but it seems that a lot of my partners (esp. the male ones) are really uncomfortable with doing that.
August 26th, 2008 at 11:34 pm
As one who is on the Fuck You List, I feel I should weigh in:
Any guy- other than a hardcore DOM- that doesn’t start the session off with the gentle play of massage and light stroking and ever-so-soft pinching is an amateur. Its that first bit of foreplay that will pretty much indicate what the woman is in store for. Granted, some women like it rough right off the bat, but nearly every single woman that I’ve been lucky enough to touch in that particular area has preferred a light touch first, and then- once sufficiently worked up- the rougher stuff.
TBK- fortunately for you, this is another area of expertise of mine, and while I can’t say how I will stack up against others who have been privy to your magnificent tits, I know that you’ll be very pleased with my performance in that area. Especially when I perform clean-up of myself from them.
p.s. - any virgin out there would do themselves a favor to watch a not-quite-serious-yet-still-informative scene from the movie Monty Python’s The Meaning of Life. There is a quite hilarious scene at the beginning of the film wherein John Cleese, as a school master, teaches a class full of teenage boys about sex education. Being a Monty Python film, I’m sure you can imagine that it doesn’t take the predictable course. But you just might learn something…
August 27th, 2008 at 12:52 am
Quivering is such a sexy word! Quiver is sexy too, but the verb is much nicer.
August 27th, 2008 at 2:05 am
“Don’t go straight for the clit!” *LOL*
August 27th, 2008 at 8:43 am
I just came in here to say what has already been said a dozen times. I find the best strategy is to start slow and gentle. It works for dudes, too; my strongest orgasms are the ones that take a while to build.
August 27th, 2008 at 8:51 am
no no, most of the time if they guy is being pleasant and gentle and caressing or sucking them I could lay all day.
I like manhandling in the right situation, but I loooooooooooove the soft touch when it comes to boobies.
August 27th, 2008 at 9:50 am
You’re not weird at all, it’s so much sexier and fun to have a long slow buildup! The anticipation is the turn on. The worst is when a lover is so goal oriented that he/she just dives right onto the naughty bits before I’m ready! It’s not a sprint, it’s a marathon!
August 27th, 2008 at 9:52 am
OMG…. I get so wet and turned on when my breasts get played with. Some how, it never works when I try it. But having his hands caress me… *shivers* I’m with Sorry, beautiful on that one, I could lay there all day long!
August 27th, 2008 at 12:15 pm
COME ON PEOPLE, TAKE YOUR PANTS OFF AND FUCK TBK, I wanna videotape it!
August 27th, 2008 at 12:17 pm
Rev Lion, we already agreed that the orgy is the grand finale!
August 27th, 2008 at 2:20 pm
Grand finale… meaning that you will hang up your slut panties and settle down into a monogamous vanilla relationship??
skips off while giggling manically
August 27th, 2008 at 2:30 pm
DORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
August 27th, 2008 at 6:54 pm
I lurve you too!
MWAH!!
August 30th, 2008 at 1:43 am
Most of my partners definitely prefer a slow warm-up to a fast grab and go, especially with nipples but for breasts and… actually almost everywhere. After warming up it’s… all over the map. For that matter *I* prefer being warmed up first or it doesn’t really get me anywhere at all.
The tricky part, again especially for nipples, is that for a lot of people (but not all) you can overstimulate them and it stops being fun and starts being *really* annoying. Again, it’s the same thing for me. One minute I can be sailing and the next it’s… um… weird analogy time here… sort of like when you lick the little snaps on a 9-volt battery. (*Said* it was going to be weird didn’t I?)
Something a partner clued me in to years ago is that for a lot of people (guys mostly, maybe?) take the 2nd-base/3rd-base thing a little too literally and don’t go back to breasts after moving down.
Something else that works really well for breast play is to pull a satin or silk scarf, or a bedsheet back over your breasts and stroke and squeeze them through that. You get a lot of those cool friction/frictionless sensations of licking without evaporation making them chilly. (Not that there’s anything wrong with licking! Or, for some people, chills.)
Another rookie mistake? Concentrating on just nipples and not the whole breast, even for guys. As another partner reminded me (I try to learn from all my mistakes) “they’re not silly putty.” If you’re kissing it’s great to go from just under the sides of someone’s chin down to under her breasts and back.
Sorry about the major digression. But sigh!
figleaf
August 31st, 2008 at 5:14 pm
Isnt warm up essential in almost all areas. TBK I have taken your mention to heart in case im ever graced with your presence. However, warm up is important in everything, I mean if your roleplaying a rape scene in an alleyway I guess not but even with hardcore bdsm play most dont jump right in to full force caning or cutting there is a warm up. Everything in life requires foreplay, an appetizer, christ guys earn that beauty that lays upon your bed, savor the flavor!