Ask The Slut: Is Hardcore Porn as Fucked Up as It Appears?
Filed under: Ask The Slut - July 25, 2008 @ 6:00 am
Dear Slut,
I’ve been recently watching porn off the internet and am totally amazed at how much of it seems to degrade women. For example: cum facial shots. Sure it’s exciting to cum on my partner’s face, but I don’t see the excitement of watching six guys cum like fire hoses all over a gal’s face.
Then there’s innumerable amount of things women put inside their pussies but what I don’t understand is at some point in time a women’s pussy has to get so stretched out it doesn’t provide any sustenance for any sized cock. So tell me am I wrong to think SOME porn is degrading to women and that these women got into the business because they are fucked up?
Naive?
Dear Naive,
This is an easy question. Yes they are fucked up and the bitches deserve it.
Ha, just kidding.
First of all, some folks need their stimulation to be over the top, hence the fire hose brigade. Second, cumming on a woman’s face is hot because:
- you’re using her like a toilet
- you’re marking your territory
- you’re defiling something pretty
- you’re showing her who’s boss, asserting your dominance
- you’re treating her like a dirty little slut
It’s all part of the game. The porn stars know the game ahead of time, and they play along. You just have to hope that the women doing it are into it, and if they aren’t, that they are into the money and can wash up and go on about their business without curling up in a fetal position in the corner and doing drugs to take away the pain. I admit I worry about the women who don’t understand the game and subject themselves to abuse that will cause psychological damage. But you as a consumer can’t fret over that (otherwise YOU will end up curling up in a fetal position in the corner) - that’s the porn director’s job. That’s why it’s good to support wholesome hardcore companies like Belladonna Entertainment and Mama Goddess Nina. GGG, ehhh maybe not so much. Seriously that site gives me gooey nightmares.
A couple parting thoughts: yes some women in the porn industry are running away from their child molesting stepfather in Nebraska and are victims of circumstance, but many are not. And pussies are nice and stretchy and most can take a beating and still be good to go after a few rounds of Kegel exercises.
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Go ahead, try and shock me. Send your questions to love [at] thebeautifulkind . com
July 25th, 2008 at 7:44 am
I stopped going to my local porn shop years ago, the last time I went, a really creepy dude asked me to come home with him. Even though that was the last straw, I had got to the point where I couldn’t find any decent porn there anyway. Mainstream porn is just as bad as mainstream music and movies. I cant speak for others but to me things like facial cum shots are as dead as disco.
July 25th, 2008 at 10:18 am
what’s ironic, is how the industry and the viewers needs and wants have gone full circle. So now instead of all that weird stuff, the most popular stuff is JUST watching a REAL boyfriend and girlfriend fuck in their REAL bedroom. all those plastic boobs and neon boots and leather mini-skirts are just tiring, especially when you have Fabio at the healm.
But SERIOUSLY, nothing beats watching an 18 year old, naive beginner take a 12 inch black cock up her virgin ass.
July 25th, 2008 at 10:52 am
I like amateur porn. Just a girl with a cam, or b/f, g/f, with the ability to keep the damn thing steady. There should be no plot, other than the obvious.
July 25th, 2008 at 2:07 pm
Weird. I just finished watching the tyra show and it was about porn and that whole “Is it degrading?” thing.
Yes it is, but that’s okay.
July 25th, 2008 at 10:37 pm
Ummm…..it’s porn. It’s supposed to be degrading and well, honestly, society on a whole has really only ever been “for” degrading women! Frankly if you don’t like it or aren’t turned on by it, don’t watch it and don’t support the industry.
You may also want to consider that it’s not real cum. It is after all the film industry and there are tons of special effects that can be employed.
July 27th, 2008 at 9:41 pm
I just have to state the less obvious on this one - the phrase “fire hose brigade” makes me wanna catch a truck…
July 28th, 2008 at 5:43 am
If it’s fun, is it degrading? If you’re making good money at it, is it degrading? It depends on how you look at it. In fact, almost any job is degrading or not, depending on how you look at it, and depending on how much fun it is and how much money you’re making.
July 28th, 2008 at 6:20 am
“Almost any job is degrading…” Brilliant, Juan! I felt much better about being a real whore than I did about being a corporate whore…
July 29th, 2008 at 10:17 am
**degrating to women
that’s what I meant.