Messy Girls
Filed under: Fetish Parade - June 29, 2008 @ 7:20 am
Often I hear people wonder how certain fetishes come to be. Here’s one that I don’t understand - Messy Girls. Women covered in chocolate, shave cream, mud, paint, pudding, just about anything. Why? Do you have any insight? Is it supposed to symbolize defiling a woman, covering her in cum? I’m sure texture is involved.
I love when sex is messy, when you and your partner are sticky and glued together with sweat, cum, female ejaculate… I love seeing a man’s chest hair slicked down with perspiration or when he’s showering, but the thought of him covered in silver paint or chocolate pudding doesn’t do it for me.
Is it art? I think it would be fun to be a messy girl model - do you think they get turned on by it? It strikes me as playful - I wonder what kind of guy likes this stuff. Would he be dom or sub? Would he have a good sense of humor? Does he go to the grocery store and walk through the pudding aisle and imagine how it would look on the cashier up front?
June 29th, 2008 at 9:12 am
i wonder if its an extension of the same psychosis that gets women to put on make up. Like it just keeps going. and in a sense i bet they love the dress-up aspect of it. turning one thing that is boring into an event!!!
some people feel comfortable in messes also.
some of it is probably also the relation of messiness to cum and all that stuff. like the woman above covered in paint, she probably is imagining herself as being covered in cum, cum woman rising from the deep…..liquid dress-up….
it could also attach to the fact that humans always love anything that is similar to the womb. we love fetal postions, wetness, showers, baths, warmth, darkness, vagina….
why not simulated embryonic fluid???
June 29th, 2008 at 9:40 am
Yeah, I dont get that one either. What about the chicks who like to be humiliated by getting “pied,” I guess thats a messy fetish, sort of. I do think I might like to nail a chick in the face with a pie, nothing sexual, just funny.
June 29th, 2008 at 9:52 am
Its fun for the cashier especially when you have the chocolate, the whip cream and the lube/condoms, but it’s hell on the bedroom and the sheets, and the hassle of the clean up is a turn off.
June 29th, 2008 at 9:58 am
i just went to the website and it just came to me….
they love the wrongness of it, BAD GIRL, BAD GIRL…
someo fo them probably got scolded a lot when they were kids for making messes….some of them being beaten or molested as punishment i bet….
then others feed off the already existing fetish.
Capn- yes, the clean-up of the mess is a big turn off for some of us.
June 29th, 2008 at 11:15 am
I couldn’t do the messy stuff because there’s no way I could concentrate on enjoying the sex when all I’d be thinking was, “Wow, this is a huge mess. Gross, I just got {insert messy item here} in my hair. This is going to take forever to clean up” etc, etc. I can barely stand to have lube on my skin, I just don’t like the feeling. Plus my husband would never go for messy play. He cannot stand to have dirty/messy/sticky hands.
As for the girls being the models getting turned on by their work - I sure hope they at least enjoy it! I would have to be very highly paid to agree to be covered in food, mud, or other non-sex generated substances. *shiver*
June 29th, 2008 at 2:31 pm
This has nothing to do with “messy porn” but my boy and I have found that a plastic fitted sheet under the other bedding has saved us a lot of clean up woes. And undoubtedly elongated his mattress’s life.
Hooray for plastic sheets.
Now I have no good excuse not to let him squirt me.
June 29th, 2008 at 6:03 pm
I don’t have this particular fetish, but I have a similar one so maybe I can shed some insight.
Anything that allows you to let go of your inhibitions is sexy. For some people being covered in paint would make them feel that they are out of control, and they can let loose. Similar to how a masochist would feel. Also, having your whole body covered in something allows you to feel your whole body at once, so it must be an interesting sensation during sex.