Ask The Slut: What’s Up With CFNM Porn?
Filed under: Ask The Slut - June 17, 2008 @ 6:00 am
Dear Slut,
Some time ago, in my porn hunting travels, I came across the whole CFNM (Clothed Female Nude Male) thing. Recently, I have been thinking about it again. Because, you see, I find it quite hot.
This doesn’t make me straight. I’m still a lesbian. I’m not hot for the guys or the penises that are attached, nor do I want them. I am so turned on by the women, though. Is this weird?
So who is the target for this kind of porn? Do guys like it? Given how homophobic most men are, I can’t imagine guys would get into seeing naked guys. And straight women, sure, maybe, but then to see women enjoying this…that might be odd. Or does it just appeal to those of use with more unusual tastes in porn?
Maybe I should clarify. I’m not into the humiliation kind of stuff, I really lose the women at a strip club or with a stripper sucking the guy off, maybe even getting fucked, in the more risque stuff. but the sight of a normal, real woman (which I vastly prefer in porn anyway) sucking a stripper’s cock is pretty damn hot to me, and I have pet the bunny to it a few times. Even the thought of it, in the shower, can get me going. So what gives? I am curious to know your thoughts on this. Am I just totally screwed up sexually?
Porn Surfing Lesbian
Dear PornChick,
Ahh, porn - it can be a double edged sword - it brings you pleasure, but then the guilt, shame, and disgust sinks in. My friend Dylan over at 365 Observations had to break up with it, but I fear they’ll have to pry the laptop and vibrator from my cold, dead fingers (and then they can use my body for necro porn!)
PornChick, you are not screwed up. You are COMPLEX. In your fantasies you can think whatever you want. You can’t control what turns you on, it just IS, so go with it. I think the people who are into CFNM porn are the kind who like submissive men and dominant women. You probably like a strong, confident woman and enjoy seeing her take pleasure from (and oh sure, maybe humiliate) a dude. I’ll bet sub guys eat this shit up.
And I hardly think this is weird porn. For that, go back up to Dylan’s link and click around. Just don’t forget to have a barf bucket handy. Oh MAN I just clicked on the SourMath one and am seriously regretting it. I never knew porn could get you seasick!!!
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June 17th, 2008 at 7:56 am
well, i never knew there was such a genre. but now that i’ve seen the pic up above i understand more deeply. I think the woman, being the sexier of the 2 types of human. she glows in the presence of a neud man. Like you WANT to see HER naked so you are trying so hard with your eyes to rip her clothes off and eat her pussy and grab those tits. the guy sort of dissappears. he is sort of embarrassed. so it is a dom female thing i bet. the dude will do anything the woman wants. its like a yin yang kinda thing. when yang is not balanced with yin, one glows hotter and hotter……so damn, ULTIMATELY, nothing is hotter than a clothed woman. all packaged up ready to be ripped open and devoured.
GOD i love women….
Amen
June 17th, 2008 at 8:43 am
Certainly a dom female thing, I think it would be much more effective if the woman was fully clothed.
June 17th, 2008 at 9:55 am
LOL… OMG… I totally just clicked on that sourmath! It’s a good thing I work in the porn industry or that could have been extremely embarrassing! How do you get it to stop? I had to close my entire window! BTW… it sounds like that CFNM genre kicks ass! I’m gonna have to check that out!
June 17th, 2008 at 11:12 am
OMFG!! She was shoving a dildo in his penis hole!! Why would any man share that link???
Oh man…my penis hurts just thinking about that shit.
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