Sexy China: The Rape of Nanking
Filed under: Eros - June 2, 2008 @ 6:00 amWe were in Nanjing the night he raped me.
We were with this lame tour group of about 30 people, mostly conservative couples in their 50’s and 60’s, and everyone knew what room we were in since they made us all stay on the same floor. I’m not sure why Beau decided to get his freak on in this setting, but next thing I knew, we were in for the night and he was working me over in our hotel room. He threw me into a plate glass window overlooking the balcony and my head made a nice, deep smashing sound.
He growled in my ear, “This is what you get for dressing so sexy today, you tease.”
I tried not to kiss him, but every time I turned away, he bit my cheek. Motherfucker!
It was the hardest he had been in a long time. Every time he slapped my face, his cock would jerk and strain. (He says every time I resist or say no, he has to fight the nice guy mentality and keep pushing on, trusting I will use my safe word. And here’s a funny thing - he says he doesn’t understand all the rough sex, but that he does it for me because he knows I like it. My response: WTF? If he “doesn’t get it”, then why does he get so goddamn hard?? Excuuse me for allowing him to exercise his inner rapist.)
I was screaming into the pillow when we heard a tentative knock on the door. !! Well, I didn’t hear it - I was screaming. But he did. He paused for a moment, and the person went away. Then he proceeded to pummel me.
The next morning as we walked down to breakfast hand-in-hand he asked me, “So do you think we’ll get a reputation with the group as the couple who has loud sex?”
With a devilish grin, I replied, “I dunno, but I’m going to save face (”mianzi!” ) and act scared of you from now on.”
June 2nd, 2008 at 6:47 am
eeek, fun.
June 2nd, 2008 at 7:40 am
Hey TBK,
I’m not the most politically correct guy in the world … but, the rape of Nanking was a terribly horrific event.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nanking_Massacre
The death toll is estimated at 300,000 with maybe 500,000 more in the surrounding area. Anyway, sorry to be a No Fun Nancy. I hope you had a great trip.
Tom
June 2nd, 2008 at 8:38 am
From the description of the other people you may have gotten the reputation as the couple who actually have sex. Freaking people out always makes it hotter!
June 2nd, 2008 at 10:54 am
I love messing with people like that. I think it’s great to get under their skin.
June 2nd, 2008 at 11:04 am
Hahahah! Save face in front of the locals by acting like a battered woman? Imagine the looks on their faces! (:
June 2nd, 2008 at 12:15 pm
I did the rough sex thing with my wife a few times, early on, even though I wasn’t that into it. If the Beau is anything like me, if he’s going to do something, he’s going to do it right! You want it rough, you’re going to get it ROUGH!
June 2nd, 2008 at 2:15 pm
When my wife and I first started getting into rough sex, I had to fight a *lot* to get past the nice guy instinct. And once I got past that, it took me a while to realize how much I was really enjoying it. Sometimes, it seems like you spend a lot of time worrying if you’re doing it right and that you’re not hurting her anymore than you mean to, and that distracts you a bit from just how hard you are.
June 2nd, 2008 at 3:32 pm
reluctant nice hubby’s response after spanking me the first time:
“i thought i was hurting you
until i felt how wet you were after the first swat.”
June 3rd, 2008 at 10:50 am
we all like things that are forbidden –whether they be food, clothing, people or actions. because beau has such a nice guy mentality and treating you in such an aggressive way is forbidden in nice guy mentality, it ultimately really turns him on. just a theory.
June 3rd, 2008 at 4:28 pm
[...] Let me start by saying that I’ve never been a very successful rapist. With TBK’s eager help, I’m beginning to get the hang of it :) TBK has already posted her point of view about this experience here. [...]
June 4th, 2008 at 3:45 pm
Tom, just found your comment in spam folder. FINALLY, someone who took offense at my horribly offensive title. I know, I know. I read the book by Iris Chang years ago. She committed suicide in 2005. She thought too much about it. So horrific. I went to the memorial museum and was properly moved. Words can’t express it. It almost makes you think the Japanese are a bunch of monsters, but then you go and read up on Hiroshima…
I love you history buffs!!!!
August 22nd, 2008 at 12:22 am
What is that lurking in the dark…something just moved over there…oh it is probably in my head….I will just go to sleep….Famous last words.
September 10th, 2008 at 10:19 pm
A former girlfriend and I had a somewhat similar experience. We had reserved a hot tub suite to celebrate New Years 2000. We like to role-play rough, so early in the evening I had her on the bed, tearing her t-shirt and panties off, growling what I was going to do to her, and she was whimpering and telling me to stop …
When all of a sudden the phone rang. It was the front desk, asking (in a shaky voice) if everything was OK. We assured them we were both fine, hung up … and started laughing like crazy. We finished by just having vanilla sex, and waited until we got back to my place to play rape again.