You Are The Beautiful Kind: A
Filed under: You Are The Beautiful Kind - May 28, 2008 @ 6:00 am
Alias: A
Age: 31
Relationship status: Happily Married
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Favorite physical feature on yourself: Eyes
Beauty tip: Be mindful of your mental and emotional health every day. There is nothing more beautiful than when someone feels strong, sane, clear and secure with them self.
Charity you support: www.diabetes.org
If you could take a class for fun right now, what would you take? Piano. I’ve been wanting to learn on a serious level.
What do you want to learn/add to what you already know? Well, I’m studying Biology and have spent a lot of time learning about Nutrition. I’d love to learn even more about the physiological affects that food has in our bodies. What’s more, how it affects ones mental and emotional health and capacity.
Did you have an imaginary friend growing up? No, not really though I did have a lot of internal dialogue going on. Errr, not that I would hear voices but I suppose I started analyzing everything around me from a very young age.
What is one of the bravest things you have ever done? I stepped above all the pain and fear and became 100% willing to let go of the most important relationship in my life in order to find what was real. …and they lived happily ever after. ![]()
Special skill/talent, what are you really good at? (non-sexual): Reading people and situations.
Special skill/talent, what are you really good at? (sexual): He says my being uninhibited.
How old were you when you lost your virginity? 14 on a water bed. If only I had heard of Dramamine.
The last time you had sex, and with who: This past week with my hubs.
Tattoos/piercings: Piercings: Nose, ears, hood. Tattoos: A beautiful lotus that covers my, uh, kitty. Soon there will be another one to commemorate my marriage. This will not be on my kitty.
What type of person are you into? In general, those who are passionate, real, secure, open, and sincere. Sexually, all of the above including the ability to put me into submission.
What do you fantasize about? What turns you on? I fantasize about most things that in reality I would not like to experience with the exception of a gang bang. Oh, I’d love that. Much of what TBK has written about, I concur with on a sexual level. What a brave woman to admit what she does. Turn ons: Intelligent people, nerds, being challenged, being Dominated, Dominating women, seeing photos/videos of women in vulnerable and usually uncomfortable positions, passionate love making which feels almost animalistic, and chocolate raspberry flavored anything.
Pubic hairstyle: Usually trimmed or shaved.
What do your nipples look like? Brownish-Pink and are often (somewhat embarrassingly) poking through my shirt.
What was one of the hottest moments of your life? The first threesome I shared with my husband. It was amazing.
Any regrets? Yes. Not being completely honest with myself about the meaning of the sexual activities I participated in outside of my relationship some years ago. It harmed both myself and the man who is now my husband. The benefit was that it helped me to realize that I was using sex and seduction as a way to feel better about myself. At the time, feeling good and finding my identity did not come from these behaviors, nor did a healthy and happy relationship. The absence of such intentions paved the way for real growth and happiness. Using said behaviors while in a healthy place in ones life can, however, be very exciting, hot, and produce some of the most amazing and memorable experiences.
Why do you think I chose you for YATBK? Probably because you know that I’m true kinkster through and through. Plus, I read your blog like a daily newspaper. ![]()
May 28th, 2008 at 10:27 am
“The absence of such intentions paved the way for real growth and happiness. Using said behaviors while in a healthy place in ones life can, however, be very exciting, hot, and produce some of the most amazing and memorable experiences.”
what an amazing statement… one that rings true for me.
your photo also strikes a chord. those beautiful, rough hands pulling your nipples. mmmmmmm
May 28th, 2008 at 3:17 pm
I feel much the same way. I realized in the past few years that I use sex as my addiction. I never really cared about the guy…..it was the sex that I wanted. I’m not a binge drinker like most people my age, not big on the drugs, and I don’t starve or binge myself with food. Sex was my addiction. I don’t feel so alone any more. Thanks….
I also, LOVE the picture!
May 30th, 2008 at 6:53 am
Thank you, Ladies. I really appreciate your comments. It always feels great to know that others identify.
And thank you for the photo comments. I think the hands are a great touch as well. Can you believe some folks have thought those were MY hands?? Besides, my arms were chained out to the sides. Mmmm. What a fun photo shoot.
Best,
A
June 8th, 2008 at 11:11 pm
those beautiful, rough hands pulling your nipples. mmmmmmm
As owner of said hands, thank you.
July 31st, 2008 at 11:09 pm
well can v b email friends ? i m sure u wont hv any regrets……..