The Beautiful Kind

Alias: Sunday
Age: 37
Relationship status: Married flirt
Sexual orientation: Bisexual, though it’s been a long time since I was last with a woman
Favorite physical feature on yourself: There isn’t much about my body I’m not in love with. Topping the list of favorites is the nape of my neck, the small of my back where my spine meets my ass and my eyes.
Beauty tip: The one I follow least: get plenty of sleep. The one I follow most: use really good moisturizer, take your makeup off every day, and go one day a week without it. The one I really buy, the ultimate beauty tip: be happy in your soul and happy in your heart and get some sun on your face every single day. The happier your soul is, the more beautiful you will feel and the more beautiful you feel the more beautiful you will be.
Charity you support: Defenders of Wildlife and the National Arbor Day Foundation. In general I give to environmental and animal related charities before those that revolve around humans though I did shave my head for [organization name removed upon request] in ’04. If this phrasing changed from “charity” to “cause” it would open the door to responses like “the human condition”, “personal empowerment”, “working the kinks out” and those are appropriate responses for me as well.
If you could take a class for fun right now, what would you take? There are a number of classes I’d like to take but _right now_ I would continue with the ballroom dancing that I had to quit last fall when my partner was injured. I passionately miss dancing.
What do you want to learn/add to what you already know? Silversmithing, auto mechanics, a deeper understanding of how to manipulate Excel spreadsheets, expanded knowledge of ballroom dancing, welding… so much more that doesn’t spring immediately to mind.
Did you have an imaginary friend growing up? I had lots of imagination and lots of imaginary interactions but I didn’t grow up with one particular Snuffalupagus.
What is one of the bravest things you have ever done? Changing my mind about who I am, what makes me tick, how I interact with others and what I’m capable of in this vast universe is by far the bravest thing I’ve done.
Special skill/talent, what are you really good at? (non-sexual): It’s funny as hell to me that of all the questions here this one makes me most uncomfortable. I have quite a few talents but no specific skill set so I’m never sure how to respond to this line of questioning. I have a flair for making unusual textures and colors look great together in art/jewelry/clothing, I’m great at throwing items together and making a tasty meal without recipes and make a mean green chile for being a white girl, I have a green thumb and distance healing comes naturally to me.
Special skill/talent, what are you really good at? (sexual): I don’t know that I have one – my fantasies, fetishes, and interests are so vast that I’ve never bothered to focus in on one particular thing and hone it, per se. Maybe that’s the answer. I’m good at enjoying myself, following my whims, expressing my desires and not ruling anything out in advance. Considering we live in an age where so many women are still closeted about sex, I think that’s powerful enough.
How old were you when you lost your virginity? I was 13. It was too early for me but damn, it felt like the right choice at the time. I took a year long sabbatical from sex after the conversation where I broke the news to my mother and she confessed her worry that I’d become a slut… and when I returned I became a slut for a while.
The last time you had sex, and with who: This morning, not quite awake yet, with my husband. I love morning sex and it was *hot* being seduced from sleep because he’s not nearly as keen on it as I am.
Tattoos/piercings: Yeah, quite a few of each. I’m addicted to the specific pain of each activity and I like recording my moods and personalities in and on my flesh. I’ve got five holes in my left ear, four in my right. Of the nine only a third of them were done professionally; I drove a needle from the front of my earlobes into a receiving potato behind it for the remaining six, all from angst-driven longing for past lovers. Both my nipples are pierced and I got my VCH piercing (longed for and feared for a decade) done less than a year ago. In no particular order my nine tattoos represent a man I love a great deal, my continuing path toward playful freedom, my playful dark side, my strong urge to fly, my belief that man and woman are one, my attachment to metamorphosis, my love of the night and a reminder to stay calm.
What type of person are you into? Quirky, honest, geeky, emotional, without drama but full of passion, inspired, comfortable with their own personality and personal beauty, weird, playful, creative, spontaneous, those who stand up for their beliefs regardless of the audience, funny.
What do you fantasize about? What turns you on? Mostly I fantasize about kissing. Remember that sensation of a make-out session from high school that would last for hours? That tingling that crept through your entire body as a result of pressing lips and tongues together? *Love that*. I love being grabbed from behind without anticipating it, being bitten on the neck and then pulled into a hard kiss. I’ve always wanted to go on a consumerist spree wearing nothing but a knee length leather trench coat and high boots just to see if the world around me would notice because _I_ know I’m naked underneath. Giving head, being spanked, bloodletting, having my toes sucked and the backs of my knees licked, the sound of train whistles and the smell of rain are serious turn-ons. And having sex always makes me want to have more sex because I’m turned on by being wet and turned on by being turned on.
Pubic hairstyle: Using clippers dedicated to the purpose, I shave my labia completely, shape my bikini line into a wide V, and keep the mound trimmed. The length, like so much else, depends on my mood and the season.
What do your nipples look like? My nipples have been described as “perky”, as recently as a few weeks ago in my blatant sharing of nude photos of myself and not too long ago I was told I have “great tits” by a straight female friend who is typically uncomfortable with nudity across the board. My areolas are about the size of quarters, and are browner than the pink of the nipples themselves. Because they’re pierced they’re semi-erect all the time and they’re slightly wider in diameter than the tip of a pencil eraser but almost precisely the same size and shape, once enough erasure has been done to soften the edges. Though function wasn’t part of the question I’m compelled to share that on occasion when I’m on my period I also lactate a little in spite of having never borne children… and that I love my breasts and find them to be sexual entities of their own right but my nipples are not overly sensitive, hence the drive to have them pierced.
What was one of the hottest moments of your life? Ah, I like this question. I’ve had a lot of hot moments (like the morning sex mentioned above) but the one that comes to mind first was being pushed brusquely up against my desk at work by the UPS guy. It was after hours and we’d shared months of intense flirting. Finally given the chance he grabbed my ass and kissed me roughly… yeah, that was hot indeed. I haven’t looked at those brown uniforms the same since.
Any regrets? I’ve had a few but what’s past is past. It no longer suits me to dwell on what could have been or what should be better. I’m much happier focusing on the many blessings in my life every day and making changes in and around me to manifest more of them. So I guess I regret not figuring that out a bit sooner
Why do you think I chose you for YATBK? I’m intelligent, sexy, open, honest, and working my own kinks out. Beauty AND substance… boys are really lucky to have us.