The Beautiful Kind

Dear Slut,
I’ve heard that by applying pressure to the prostate during an orgasm, one prevents male ejaculation, and prevents the body from returning to the pre-aroused state, thereby increasing sexual stamina. Is this true? And, if it is, would a butt plug do the job, in case one’s partner is a bit squeamish about putting her finger there?
Probing

Dear Probing,
It is definitely healthy to give your sadly neglected prostate some attention, though I’m not sure if it will prevent male ejaculation. I suppose it could trigger orgasms without ejaculate, or multiple orgasms, or loads of cum as your cock turns into a vibrating jackhammer…

We’re still in the early stages of male rectal exploration here at the TBK lair - we’ve tried a finger and two different kinds of butt plugs so far. (Oh and if a partner is squeamish about putting a finger up there, get some latex gloves, or HI, that’s what soap and water is for.) The two butt plugs didn’t do anything except induce awkwardness, and the finger was OK - we haven’t yet reached that legendary land of “prostate-focused extended orgasms.”

I asked a fag for some male butt play advice, and here is what he had to say:

- Men store more fecal matter in their colon, so it’s good to prepare accordingly. He should eat yogurt - it makes the prostate more sensitive. He should not eat meat, green veggies or a big meal 2-6 hours before penetration. Enemas are nice for prep.

- Get a prostate stimulator, like the Aneros. Just look at some of the testimonials on their site. Here is what it looks like and how it goes in (in Spanish!)

Oh geez, from the diagram I can tell that I’ve been pointing my finger in the wrong direction - I’ve been hanging out in the rectum, when I should be cozying up closer to the front, as if trying to kootchy koo the pubic bone. I’ll have to try this again soon. And I really want one of these Aneros alien probes. Off to choose the right model… I’m SO glad I have a willing guinea pig on hand. Let’s hope The Beau keeps us informed of his anal hijinks on his blog.

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