Your First Orgasm
Filed under: Eros - March 31, 2008 @ 6:00 am
Everyone talks about their “first time” - losing their virginity - but what about the first time you had an orgasm? Do you remember that?
I do. I was 19 and had masturbated for years before that but never came. I ordered my first sex toy - a simple silver plastic vibrator.
My boyfriend at the time was at a hockey game and I was frustrated. I got out my vibrator and tried it out for the first time.
I was alone, and lying in bed, and just relaxed with it pressed up against my cunt. I remember the amazing delight of the orgasm, it took me by surprise and washed over me. I remember feeling giddy and triumphant. I didn’t fantasize about anything, just felt it physically. And I remember thinking to myself, “Oh my fucking god, I can have these as many times as I want.”
I mean, isn’t that awesome? We pay for a lot of pleasurable things in life, and orgasms are FREE. I have about four a day.
Do you remember your first orgasm? How old were you? What do your orgasms feel like - the waves of an ocean, a lightning bolt, a sneeze?  (I love sneezing, it feels like a platonic orgasm to me.)
March 31st, 2008 at 8:43 am
Man, you gals sure have it rough getting to that first orgasm. Most of guys have had hundreds by age 19. Im not sure if other guys had this experience but when I blew my first load, I thought I had finally broke the damn thing!
March 31st, 2008 at 9:36 am
I was 12 or 13 and starting to wonder what sex is. I was at the U. City library looking up books on sex, and i went and read one. It showed me how to masturbate, and i went home and tried it. the book made it sound so deep. It told me to stroke it, not too hard, and not too fast, like how fast you would shake someone’s hand. I had read other things about masturbation that had me worried about how much cum was gonna come out. One thing i had read made it sound like i needed to find somewhere to put it, so in my mind i was imagining i was gonna spray like 2 cups of this nasty white sticky liquid. So i tried the method out and it was fun, at first i didn’t think anything was gonna happen….but of course after 8 minutes or so, my body started to tighten up, toes curled up, and my bodies tension, stress, and other things sort of magically exploded out of my dick in the form of cum. i felt like i had just sprayed my inside feelings out through my dick.
I later read some other book that said men on average sparay about 1/2 teaspoon of cum per orgasm. This was mostly accurate, until i became a real man in my twenties….now a days i sometimes spray as much as an 1/8 of a cup ! ! ! ! i love cum, i am not one of those guys who hates it and has to wipe it off with a towel. i embrace cum just like i embrace the pleasures and pains of life. i love cum play. I like licking other peoples cum out of my girlfriends pussy…..and then fucking her so hard and putting MY anointment in there, dominating the foreign cum with my cum.
i lost my virginty in a blockbuster parking lot.
she was 14 or 15, i was 16. it was so tight it took like 30 minutes to squueze it in. the entire car was so steamed up nobody could even tell what was going on.
that was fun. I hate that girl now, but we did have some fun. One time we turned off the hospital elevator after leaving my psychologist’s office, and we fucked in the elevator, fast and hard, since the alarm was going off, i came in her, then we just hit the button and walked off the elevator with people wondering , “WTF”.
i have had more orgasms than mcdonalds has served burgers!!!
March 31st, 2008 at 9:54 am
When I have an orgasm, you’ll be the first one to know, TBK.
March 31st, 2008 at 1:04 pm
Not a week ago I said in conversation “I am so grateful that I’m capable of multiple orgasms”. Typically I’m too wrapped up in the pleasure or the situation or the fantasy to pay enough attention to describe the orgasm itself but now it’s a quest to find the words.
In the meantime, I can recall what the first one felt like, what was running through my mind as a nine year old perfecting masturbation… in my mind’s eye I was chasing a fire truck through narrow streets. Closing in on it as it twisted and turned cartoon-style the orgasm built and the siren in my ears got louder. This sensation (and imagery) ebbed and flowed for probably 20 minutes before I actually caught the fire truck, leaping onto the rearmost ladder and releasing the fire that was growing in my belly. It sparked outward sharply and set my legs on my fire causing the upper and lower halves of my body to convulse away from one another. As the sparks spread and the tingling slowed, the burning sensation in my gut dissipated and a great warm calm washed over me.
I have no idea why my brain manifested my first orgasm as a fire truck that needed to be caught - that was the only time that imagery has ever presented itself.
March 31st, 2008 at 1:45 pm
I LOVE these comments people!! Ya never let me down…
Dor - orgasm hog!
Lion - I LOVE a man who isn’t cum shy! It would be SO hot if a guy came on my tits and licked it off, or came inside me and um… anyway, just have to tell you that you will be loving some of my blog posts coming up, I’m such a dirty little cumslut I’m blushing…I’ll be fantasizing about you licking some other guy’s cum out of your gf’s pussy next time I masturbate.
Valentine - I am SO honored!! Can’t wait! xoxo
Sunday - love the firetruck imagery! Hot and makes sense to me. I’m going to start referring to masturbating as “catching a firetruck,” as in, “God the thought of Lion lapping cum has me so hot - I’m gonna go catch me a firetruck.”
March 31st, 2008 at 2:22 pm
i love the firetruck imagery too. The way you put it in that sentence TBK , makes me realize the firetruck imagery is very much like “chasing the dragon”….with drugs. Like you will never really have that first orgasm again, no matter how long you wait. I LOVE IT ! ! !
also, i am glad you like my style TBK !!!
March 31st, 2008 at 2:28 pm
TBK, while I admit to a lot of chimp-like whacking in my youth I have since learned my lesson. I rarely if ever cum via masturbation anymore, my dick belongs to my wife (balls too unfortunately). If you are ever curious about male orgasm control look up some info on FLR’s (female led relationships). A great book on the topic is called Venus on Top. Some overzealous women even go so far as using chastity devices to keep their men from constant spanking!
March 31st, 2008 at 3:43 pm
Lion, that’s one of the hottest things I may have ever read, and I’m right there with TBK on using that as my next fantasy.
I don’t remember how old I was for my first [I was young...], but I do remember thinking I had to pee, and I was afraid I would, though I didn’t. It is very much like a wave washing over my whole body, it starts with my legs tingling and soon my whole body shudders with pleasure. Not until recently have I been able to experience multiple orgasms in one session, thanks to my awesome bf who knows self control. I even learned that I can squirt, but I’ve only achieved it once, and I was alone and don’t know how I did it.
Lately I’ve noticed self-pleasure has lead to difficulty in getting off with my partner; it seems to take me longer and longer, any suggestions?
March 31st, 2008 at 4:11 pm
I was 12 and had discovered my dad’s stash of porno novels. I read them - no - I devoured them. I would lay in bed and give myself one orgasm after another while reading these XXX books… my fingers were raisins for days!
Some of my favorite fantasies - 24 years later - come from those books.
March 31st, 2008 at 5:51 pm
You’re not going to believe this, but for many years I had no idea that what I was experiencing was orgasm. I learned how to masturbate when I was very young and my preferred method was running water (I can’t believe I’m sharing this, btw =) and it was intense. I remember I would feel something like a little jolt, less than a sneeze, and then I was too tender to the touch to keep going. For years, I though all I had to do was push past the tenderness then I would feel that explosion that I always thought an orgasm should be. I was 21 when I finally figured out what was going on. Since then, it’s become far more pleasurable!
March 31st, 2008 at 7:30 pm
I was about fourteen when I had my first orgasm. When I came, I thought that I was dying, and that my mother would find me dead with my hands in my pants. After it was over, I realized what had happened, but it took me a couple of months to let myself masturbate to orgasm, because I worried that I could accidentally kill myself that way.
March 31st, 2008 at 9:18 pm
i was about 10 or 11 and i remember that my sister had a cosmo with a graphic story about a nurse taking care of a man at home and she ended up climbing on top of him and telling him to eat her pussy. that got me really hot to read and i wanted to touch myself so i did and kept going because it felt so good.
now, especially when i come with a partner, my orgasms are very intense. i have only been able to have multiples once or twice but since my normal orgasms are so intense i really don’t feel i’m missing anything by not having multiples.
and i prefer not to come with a vibrator–i come too quickly to enjoy it really!!. i have tried several and find them too intense for direct clit stimuation but i love the indirect stimulation they give.
March 31st, 2008 at 9:41 pm
okay, seriously?…these comments are incredibly arousing and touching and funny…i cant figure out what the hell to do…do i masturbate, laugh, or say “awww”…lol…but, yeah, i was about 12 or so when i had my first orgasm…with a pillow! lol
March 31st, 2008 at 9:45 pm
I’m sad to say I really can’t remember my first orgasm. However, I do remember reading books that were far too old for me. When the books got to adult sections I wouldn’t know why but my nipples would get hard and I would start feeling like I had to pee. I would wait until late at night and lock myself in the bathroom fondling my breasts and nipples until they were too tender to touch anymore. Still, not much gets me hotter than having someone suck on my nipples while barely running their finger tips along my inner thighs…
Despite not remembering my first orgasm, I now have a variety of toys that are handy for getting of
March 31st, 2008 at 10:18 pm
I don’t remember what age, but I was very young. I can remember touching myself and finding it pleasing… rubbing slowly, then faster, then slowly, then faster.
I don’t think I really knew what it was but I liked it. A lot. I did it often but always alone.
When I masturbate with my hand, the orgasm isn’t as intense as when I use a toy. I don’t like vibrators but I do prefer direct stimulation… and I still go slowly, then faster.. slowly, then faster. I like to build it up, tease myself, until I burst.
Sometimes I feel it as a wave all over and sometimes it is centralized. It doesn’t matter to me - I like all masturbatory experiences.
March 31st, 2008 at 10:20 pm
Ok, I was brought up in a VERY strictly religious home, (mormon, don’t hate me TBK, OBVIOUSLY im not that good at it ha). I had many many misconceptions about sex until about my sophmore year of high school. Hell, I didn’t even know that the penis went in and out, i viewed it as an insert and wait for orgasm type of thing…anyway, I got this book called “girl talk” when I was maybe 13 or 14 and in it there is a chapter about sex. Honestly I didn’t even know girls COULD masturbate!
So i went into the bathroom and followed the directions as best I could, except it didn’t say anything about having an orgasm, just that it felt good. So after about 10 minutes of playing with myself I started feeling the build up…and I thought that was it. So for MONTHS I would touch myself until i got to that plateau and stopped. Imagine my shock when I got brave enough to do a little research and found out that there was a CLIMAX to the build up!
The article I read mentioned techniques and one of them, as Claire has already said, was the bath water running….It took me some adjusting under the faucet, and since my butt was on the drain i had to hold my hips up in an odd position so the tub wouldn’t fill up and would drown me. But once I took the control out of my own finger-tips and waited for the build up to “explode”….oh man it was magical! that was the beginning of the end of my strict religion, orgasms were just WAY too fun! And I learned everything I could about sex and am now somewhat of the expert among my friends. But it took me two or three guys before I could have one DURING sex. “catching the fire truck” can be a real challenge for me…
April 1st, 2008 at 11:16 am
Insomniatic, There is no hating on Mormons around here. Every Mormon I’ve ever known was a kind sweet person and (surprisingly) did not try to convert me away from Atheism. In my experience, Mormons and Lutherans most consistently exhibit the idealism of Christianity.
Here’s a story that I haven’t even told TBK: I was also raised in a far-Right Christian family. My first orgasm was at 18-9 years old in the mouth of my then girlfriend. I remember asking her, “Am I going to be able to handle it?” My roommates were in the other rooms of the house and, as the orgasm built, I didn’t know if I was going to start screaming or what was going to happen. If I have one regret from my young life, it is that I didn’t fuck like rabbits with that beautiful and sexy woman!
April 1st, 2008 at 8:00 pm
Tara,
“my fingers were raisins for days!”
That is possibly the cutest fucking thing I have ever heard! Awwwwww!
April 1st, 2008 at 8:46 pm
I’m always amazed when having discussions with men/women who assume that just because a guy ejaculates….he must have had an orgasm. Not true. At least not for me.
As for first times: I was 19, she was 28 and I was nervous as fuck. So nervous that after 2 hours of fucking her with everything I had….I still hadn’t had an orgasm or ejaculated. She had multiples and eventually became so exhausted that we had to stop. She stands up to go to the restroom and faints.
I lose my virginity, but don’t get an orgasm. The woman I lost it to faints afterwards. And for two days I couldn’t touch my dick because it felt as if it had gone through a cheese grater. Ahhhh memories.
April 3rd, 2008 at 12:03 am
First…remember it well. I believe it was Kim Alexis as the inspiration. Who is Kim Alexis you ask? Sports Illustrated swimsuit model circa 1982 or 83. I was in 8th or 9th grade and quite intrigued by the outline of nipples behind lycra and the soft folds evidnet from the bikini bottoms. I had no idea what it felt like to get my hands on a pussy but it made me hard - the soft curves and sexy forms of the women.
I found that it felt good to lie prostrate on my water bed and gently rock back and forth…One time it felt so good i probably had no pants on … then i was faling off the edge of the cliff. It felt soooo good….and suddenly i was rolling back….feeling this warm wet sensation and that was my great “aaaa ha!” . Not the most flowery description…but it’s pretty much the way it went down.
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