The Beautiful Kind

Alias: Phoenix
Age: 34
Relationship status: Single and cautiously, but optimistically looking
Sexual orientation: Questionable… but leaning toward “straight,” at this time. But, whichever way I may lean, I’m a one-man/woman kinda girl. Sorry, TBK, I just can’t focus on more than one person at a time!
Favorite physical feature on yourself: I rather like my hands.
Beauty tip: Move your body! I hate exercising, but when I start to feel “sluggish,” I hop on my bicycle and head to the grocery store to pick up a bottle of Merlot and some dark chocolate! A girl’s gotta have motivation to keep fit!
Charity you support: Adult Literacy League of Orlando, FL, and Sarasota Literacy League in, you guessed it, Sarasota, FL.
If you could take a class for fun right now, what would you take? Poi dancing and cello lessons… both life-long aspirations.
What do you want to learn/add to what you already know? Everything. There’s so much that I *don’t* know! It’s one of the reasons why I enjoy meeting new people… they have so much knowledge to share.
Did you have an imaginary friend growing up? Not really. I was too introverted for imaginary friends.
What is one of the bravest things you have ever done? I’m doing it every morning… getting up and facing a new day! Really, every day is a new adventure and it’s just amazing how much life has to offer when you accept her gifts.
Special skill/talent, what are you really good at? (non-sexual): I’m a pretty damn good cook. And, I like to hone that talent with social gatherings with close friends. Friends rave about my basil pesto and vegan Alfredo!
Special skill/talent, what are you really good at? (sexual): I really like giving head. While I don’t know if that means I’m “talented” at it, I certainly have aspirations for being “good” at it. Since I’ve recently rediscovered “men” and their parts, I’m quite fascinated with learning all their curves, folds, tastes, and smells. Gawd… I’m getting tingly just thinking about it!
How old were you when you lost your virginity? 17… three months away from 18. I was a late bloomer (in relation to my friends who all got “deflowered” around 13).
The last time you had sex, and with who: A month ago… with my ex. In a week… with my ex.
Tattoos/piercings: Two tattoos that I hope to cover up with an uber-tattoo and one lone piercing left that I refuse to take out.
What type of person are you into? Open-minded vegetarians who stimulate my brain as well as my girly parts.
What do you fantasize about? What turns you on? I fantasize about meeting someone who is both gentle and domineering. Someone who I can talk to as an equal, but who is smarter than me and motivates me to be be a better *me.* Great sex, mutual masturbation, watching someone pleasure themselves, clever banter, sexual innuendo, childish banter.
Pubic hairstyle: Just closely trimmed… no “style.”
What do your nipples look like? They’re kinda cute. No dark rings, no baby bottle nipples… just small, pert, and pink!
What was one of the hottest moments of your life? Oh… this will be long! Two years ago, I attended my company’s yearly Christmas party. Like most company Christmas parties, everybody who usually couldn’t stand looking at each during the normal 9 to 5 work week became the best of friends after drinking on the company’s liquor tab. I’ll admit, I partook of the free drinks, too. However, it was what happened afterward that I remember most. A few of us from work went to a local bar, after the party. By the time “the boy from work” with whom I’d been shamelessly flirting for several months showed up, I had already had a few more shots. I remember dancing with him. I remember moving from the dance floor to the booth. I remember kissing him. I remember his hands sliding over my body, zipping and unzipping my booted leg, caressing my naked calf, inhaling his breath, feeling the slight bristle of his 5 o’clock shadow. Somewhere in the background, there were bodies on the dance floor listening to music that I didn’t hear. I had, I believe, the best make-out session I’d ever had in my entire life (with a boy). It was, most definitely, one of the hottest moments in my life.
Any regrets? Only for the things I’ve not yet done.
Why do you think I chose you for YATBK? Because you have impeccable taste in friends!