The Beautiful Kind

Tomorrow I will be posting something glorious - an amazing learning tool for you and your loved ones:

The Beautiful Kind’s Ultimate BDSM-Fetish-Kink Checklist

I’ve found a few BDSM checklists online, but none of them suited me for one reason or another (they were incomplete, had a funny rating system, were too sub-leaning) so I took one and modified it and came up with my own version.

I’ve test driven it on a few friends and they’ve learned a lot about themselves. I have learned a lot about myself - for the first time ever I put down on paper all the wild fantasies in my head that get me so hot. And just so you know, it took me three rounds of filling it out before I had enough guts to peel back all the layers. It was a liberating exercise. Mine is art, a fluid work in progress. (I’ll have you know that sock monkeys were mentioned ZERO times on my list.)

You’d do well to fill it out. It’s fucking sexy to do - I worked on it for days and kept getting aroused. If you have a partner they should fill it out, too. Then compare notes. Since sharing mine with my man, I’ve been pleasantly surprised in the bedroom several times! It would also be interesting to fill it out six months later or a year from now, see what has changed as you gain experience or enter a new phase.

Have fun with it.