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Hot Date WEEKEND: His Version

Filed under: Eros - November 1, 2007 @ 6:48 am

And here we have his take on our knotty encounter…

“Well first I popped viagra and did fifty push-ups and wore my sexxy shorts. Then I played there butts like bongos hoo-ey! After a few shots of taquila I turned off the lights and felt them up and tried to guess which was which, ya know, titty braille. I made them give me a hot oil masage topless and then it wass reverse cowgirl all the wayyyyy bitches!”

Just kidding. Here’s the real story:

Hello Beautiful Kind-ers,

I should start by saying a bit about my background. Last weekend’s experiences were my first in non-monogamy. I have been a bit of a square in that department - never even dating more than one woman at a time in my life. My closest experience to a menage a trois was falling asleep with two female friends on my shoulders in a dorm one afternoon in college. I remember that experience as one of the most serene and contented moments of my life (Thanks Jenny and Kelly.) On Friday night, in the midst of our fooling around, we three took a rest in that same configuration. I got the identical peaceful feeling, but there was one big difference this time: both women were kissing me and one of them (I couldn’t tell which) had her hand down my shorts.

In addition to her pretty face and sexy demeanor, our friend has beautiful large breasts and a fit, muscular body. I was tremendously excited during the first few hours on Friday night to brush up against her backside, to slip my arm around her waist, and when she would press her breasts up against me incidentally. Wow! Holding hands with both of these gorgeous women or having my arms around both of them during this early stage of the evening was absolutely thrilling.

I had hugged our friend a couple of times before and that is something you don’t easily forget :) . Sexy breasts, strong arms, and a sweet heart make for a very huggable woman. The first time that I kissed her was at the crystal in the middle of the caves at the City Museum. TBK was taking pictures and preaching her “You-have-to-kiss-at-the-crystal” mantra. [She has the cutest memes.]

My four favorite activities of the weekend:

1.) Telling our friend to take off her shirt in public. We were in a somewhat secluded part of the City Museum caves and I took off her shirt and put it in the cargo pocket of my pants. I proceeded to kiss and fondle her there in front of TBK with the possibility of anyone walking up on us at any time. This was, by the way, the first time I had felt those wonderful breasts! She was now wearing my FAVORITE sexy outfit for a woman: low-cut jeans and a bra. After a couple of minutes, I helped her back on with her coat - being careful to ensure that enough buttons were open so that anyone looking closely would see that she had no shirt on. She was embarrassed and wanted to button the coat all the way to the top, but I think she enjoyed it. When we got to the door of the building, I noticed that she had tied her scarf in such a way as to cover the opening in her coat. I untied her scarf and “punished” her by opening another button. On the way back to our car, which was several blocks away, I thought she might be cold, so I told her that she could put the scarf back on. She tried to button her coat instead. [You give an inch...] I didn’t want to, but I felt it was my duty to penalize her by opening a couple more buttons…and for good measure, I added a little bit of groping and kissing. She walked the last block or so to the car with her coat open to her waist at midnight in downtown St. Louis. She looked completely sexy!

2.) Both of them kissing over/with me. This probably needs little explanation. It was just as hot as I thought it would be. One thing that surprised me about it was the plethora of soft female real estate from which I could choose to touch, hold, or kiss. I’ve always been a worshiper of the female body. I get a warm feeling from touching not only the breasts, pussy, and ass, but also an arm, the small of the back, legs, feet, hands, hair, and certainly the face. When we were in bed together, my brain was almost overwhelmed by having to decide which piece of skin in front of me to kiss/caress. I kept holding the two of them in different ways…trying to maximize the skin-to-skin contact between the three of us. I literally found myself leaning to kiss one place and changing paths before I could get there to kiss another. It was a state of confusion that I thoroughly enjoyed.

3.) Making out for hours in bed next to TBK. You may have gleaned from TBK’s blog entries that she is something of an early riser and that I am a musician (read: not an early riser.) Luckily for me, our friend was also something of a night owl. We left the City Museum at about 12:30 and got to fooling around at home by a little after 1:00. TBK bravely kept up with us for an hour and a half or so, then told us that she was exhausted. She slid over to the side of the bed, covered her entire body with blankets, and (ostensibly) shut down. Personally, I believe - and she doesn’t deny it - that she was only pretending to sleep and wanted to listen to us make out next to her. We were happy to oblige. I kept my shorts on and I left her jeans on. We proceeded to kiss and fondle away for over two hours. That time flew past and I was very surprised when I did the math the next day. I spent those two hours doing a meticulous exploration of her sexy body. This exploration was punctuated by back massages in both directions. One memorable part of the exploration was sliding my hands up the legs of her jeans…touching my nails to the sensitive nerves on her inner thighs while the tight denim pressed against the back of my hand. I vividly remember the sensation and the outline of my hands in the tight fabric just inches from her pussy. She was making some pretty interesting noises around that time and I was hard as a rock.

4.) Rope Harness Handcuffs Blindfold. I had planned an elaborate rope sculpture that would have utilized both our friend and TBK. It would have put both of them in to a harness, then tied them together. It would also have incorporated a braid made from one strand of rope and each woman’s ponytail (I love ponytails!). The rope extending out of the braids would have been used as part of the apparatus to tie the harnesses together. Unfortunately, we got started too late and didn’t get to make all that happen…maybe some other day. I’m still a novice at the bondage stuff and have a lot to learn about the possibilities and times needed for implementing ideas…not to mention the tolerances of the models. When our friend’s harness was finished and her handcuffs were on, I tied her legs together using a thick cotton belt. TBK said, “It would be nice if we had a blindfold,” so we made one out of a soft scarf that was lying around. Interestingly, our friend became serene once she was tied up. I have to say that this surprised me very much. TBK is the only woman I’d ever tied before, and she is a struggler as a captive…our friend simply relaxed into the bonds. This normally chatty woman became extremely quiet and simply retreated into whatever was going on in her mind. Hmmm? TBK and I took the opportunity to do some “smecking” of our own. After a bit of this, we gave our friend the handcuff key and watched with great interest while she worked her way out of the cuffs, then the ankle ties, the blindfold, and the harness. She actually spent a good amount of time trying to undo the harness without removing the blindfold…that was an unexpected choice. Shortly later, TBK repeated the previous night’s retreat to sleep and we two night owls had some more fun - although we were pretty tired from our lack of sleep the previous night and it didn’t last as long the second night. All three of us wound up taking turns sleeping in the middle for the rest of the night. Ah, the spooning permutations.

Summary: I haven’t said a lot of flattering things about TBK in this essay. I take the knowledge of her beauty and sexiness to be a given for everyone here. One thing that surprised me about this weekend was that when it ended, I REALLY wanted to get with her again. I guess I was assuming that sexual experiences with others would weaken my connection to the original couple, but I found that the opposite was true. It was truly sexy to see her lack of jealousy when watching/encouraging me with another beautiful woman. [I'm sorry to tell all of her male readers that I'm not yet capable of returning that favor.] It was a special kind of confidence that was new to me - I’m still processing a lot of the things I learned this weekend.

One Comment to “Hot Date WEEKEND: His Version”

  1. jessemoya Says:

    It was truly sexy to see her lack of jealousy when watching/encouraging me with another beautiful woman.

    Now THAT sounds like a dream come true!

    You’re a lucky guy! I’m going to definitely take some pointers from this whole affair. I think I just need to learn how to tie some better-looking knots…

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