The Beautiful Kind

My beau and I are slowly making our way towards getting me tied up good and proper.

We got this book by “Fetish Diva” Midori, Ambassador to Kinky Pleasures, on Japanese bondage so we can read up on things to ensure we don’t cut off the circulation in my hands or strangle me (he’s not into necrophilia at all.)

The book takes you step-by-step through the most popular bondage positions you’ll see on the internet using photos and line drawings, but the best part is the prose that precedes each instruction that sets the scene and lets you get into the head of the “top” (doing the tying) or the “bottom” (being tied up). I have zero interest in tying my guy up, and am most interested in being used as an object of beauty by someone I trust, so it’s fun to read what the other person might be feeling, both perspectives. Really, it’s quite sweet.

For instance:

She is the beautiful kind. As I admire her, the vision of her bound body forms in my mind. The patterns emerge. With each length of the rope I am wrapping myself around her. The rope is the extension of my desire, lust and love for her. I see the lines sink into her curves. For a moment, as I gaze upon her, it’s me that is sinking into her flesh…

He watches me as I writhe in the ropes, feeling secure in them, feeling them gently dig into my skin. I feel the slow pressure on my pulsing clit. It makes me squirm even more. With every move I’m aware of him, all around me, as I swoon in his rope embrace. How easily he moves me! He pushes me off center, then back, assuring me of his control and my safety. I surrender further under his protective power…

And of course the book is done in a politically correct way with different body shapes and types represented. It’s interesting how the pics of the men tied up don’t excite me the way the pics featuring women do. And the tips are great, such as the suggestion to apply a vibrator to the ropes themselves, so the person tied up can feel the vibration being conducted along the tense ropes, setting more areas of the body afire. Can’t wait!