Necrophilia - I Kind Of Get It
Filed under: Heebie Jeebies - June 29, 2007 @ 8:39 am
Morbid Week is drawing to a close, and I find myself wishing it was Morbid Month! There are so many more things to cover when it comes to the creepy…sigh.
But I shall leave off with my thoughts on the Necrophilia site Will pointed out earlier this week. I’ve been reading it for days now, and I have to say I’m impressed. The guy behind it, Rob, is incredibly honest, thorough, thoughtful, and respectful.
I find myself exploring all the taboo sex fantasies one by one, whether in real life, in my head, or through research, and I always end up coming to an understanding about them, maybe even getting turned on and adding it to my masturbation roster: bestiality, rape, incest…
Of course when I first visited the site, I thought, “FREAK, OMIGOD,” and felt almost scared to click on the next page. And of course I found the topic fascinating - can’t get any more sensational than doing it with the deceased. And Rob knows it - the site has all kinds of cautionary barriers, notes to parents, a “panic” button you can hit that takes you to Google. If you keep digging, you find gems like:
What does it mean to have these “strange” sexual feelings? Well, you are human…
There is a somewhat sexually spiritual aspect to my corpse love making. I love to carry and position the body.. watching the body move limply in my arms…seeing the breasts jiggle with each movement. I love to kiss a lot and in these fantasies I spend a lot of time kissing every inch of the body. I do have a fetish of sorts…I love arms… girls’ arms. I kiss and nibble every inch of a lady’s arms…especially under her arms…burying my face into were the arm just begins to meet with the breast. Just a quick point to interject here… decay or blood of any kind does NOT hold my interest. I prefer a clean “partner”.
Over the past 5+ years my interest in necro has evolved into a more subtle, passionate experience. I find I want less for an actual dead corpse as much as simply an unconscious girl…someone willing to allow me “access” when they are out. The experience is to make soft tender love…lots of carrying and body handling…with actual sex occurring in many positions, one of which is her in my lap with me inside and slowly moving her limp body back and forth on me, her arms limp over my shoulders, legs spread wide across my legs. The fantasy is about finding a willing girl who allows herself to be made unconscious (how to do that safely is the question) and me to video our love making for her when she wakes up. Actually this fantasy is sometimes called “sleepysex” and is also very common.
Which brings me to a post I made a while back about a woman who preferred her man to have sex with her in her sleep - at least a couple guys left comments asking for her number. I thought, “what the hell does THAT mean?!” and I thought they were freaks. But now I get it. And now I wouldn’t mind trying out sex while “sleeping” (I already like being woken up by a hard cock, so what a fun contrast that would be, for me to have to lie still and be quiet, as opposed to my usual bucking and hollering.)
So now that I’ve come to terms with necrophilia, this just leaves a couple taboo fantasies I still don’t get, and god, hope I never do: clowns, adults wearing diapers, and scat.
June 29th, 2007 at 9:21 am
Have you seen Kissed? It’s a Canadian film from the mid-90’s starring Molly Parker (the female James Spader in that she’s frequently acted in high class “erotica” movies) and it deals with the subject in a very non-sensationalistic way. I say that when I only saw it once seven years ago and perhaps I’d feel differently about it now…
http://imdb.com/title/tt0116783/
P.S. You still need to check out Lost Girls.
June 29th, 2007 at 10:01 am
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June 29th, 2007 at 12:14 pm
If you’re slightly more interested in Necrophilia… Have you ever tried having sex after lowering your body temperature in bathtub full of ice water?
June 29th, 2007 at 12:47 pm
ahh my dear BTK…it’s been a fun ride but now you’ve sunk to a level that’s a bit too low for me. No, I’m sorry but not everyhting that people do for kicks should be explained away as understandable or excusable or ‘hey, it works for you so don’t feel like a freak’. What’s next, ‘getting’ the joys of pedophelia, incest, torture…hooray it’s all OK.
This is just wrong on many different levels and, alas, this is where we must disagree and part ways.
Too bad ’cause I’m gonna miss your hot-as-hell panty parade.
June 29th, 2007 at 1:13 pm
Well, I guess that answers the question..Is there sex after death?
June 29th, 2007 at 6:19 pm
Oo…I think I have to agree with the “No fucking way” opinion. While I totally appreciate “sleepy sex” - and have myself been quite turned on by ‘pretending’ to be asleep for a partner. But dead bodies…ugh…I would not only worry about the respect issue but the simple hygenic issues involved. I picture zombies. And ooze.
June 29th, 2007 at 7:56 pm
Your strategy worked, TBK!
haha.
June 30th, 2007 at 7:38 am
i have to admit i’ve fantasized about having someone have sex with me while i’m asleep…almost as good is letting someone take advantage while you’re too drunk and tired to do anything. make sure it’s someone you know and trust OF COURSE.
June 30th, 2007 at 9:44 am
I’m usually quiet and obedient anyway … why not be awake and ENJOY it?
June 30th, 2007 at 9:48 pm
Great stuff, necrophilia is wacko but very interesting.
In refference to the earlier post that I somehow missed… The girl I dated did not want me to have sex with her after she went to sleep so she wouldn’t “have to deal with it”, rather I think it was more like a rape fantasy for her. You know, she liked the idea that she was so attractive someone wanted to get with her even when she was unconscious. It also seemed easier for her to have an orgasm in the groggy state between consciousness and sleep.
July 1st, 2007 at 3:58 am
Zayne - I added it to my Netflix queue, cuz you’re the man.
Will - god no - I’m cold blooded enough as it is!
rtst - Bye!
Dr Bob - sex after death would be HEAVEN.
Chrystalbella - I’m glad you’re down with sleepy sex and the ooze that comes (ha!) with live sex!
Lolita - YESSS! I heart you! Glad we finally got to meet the other night! And as for me, I just want to pretend to be sleeping, quiet and still…which reminds me, wasn’t the fairy tale Sleeping Beauty a veiled necro fantasy?
moonbeam - can I interest you in some alcohol and pills? You trust me, right? hee hee
Anthony - Ohhh, thanks for clarifying, much better!
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August 22nd, 2008 at 12:19 am
I guess this is kind of like slow fucking. I slow fucked a girl once in a hotel room with another couple in the other bed while we were watching a movie. They had no idea it was happening, but we sure as hell did!!!! Now that I think about it, maybe these two things aren’t connected very much…