I’ve Been a Baaad Girl…
Filed under: Eros - June 14, 2007 @ 4:43 am
Lately I’ve been experimenting with spanking. Years ago I had a girlfriend who wanted a riding crop for Christmas, and I thought, “Oh my!” and I’ve been to more than one party that featured a flog where I was just a voyeur, but now I’m beginning to see the appeal. I’ve got the perfect ass for it - round, inviting, big enough to take it. (And this Friday’s Panty Parade shot will be perfect for this theme!)
So far all I’ve used is the strong hand of a man, and I think that will do me just fine. I like for the butt to get all nice and pink, not bruised. It’s fun to compare the rosy hot cheeks to the cool white flesh of the thigh. And all that evidence of butt whuppin’ fades after a little while with no problem.
I told the guy I’ve been playing with that I had sub tendencies, so he suggested that I bend over his knee. I’ve been slapped on the ass during sex, but have never “assumed the position” like this. I balked for oh, about negative one second, then decided to give it a try. Oh my gosh it was hot. He’d spank me and get me all hot and steamy and wet and then finger fuck me, then spank me again. I liked feeling his hand leave my ass, which meant it was about to come back down. And more than two spanks in a row is deliciously unbearable.
One time we were talking about it, and he said, “I don’t really understand the spanking thing - I mean, it’s fun, I don’t mind doing it, but I’m not sure what it’s all about.” I said, “Dude it was YOUR idea! I’ve been going along with it! … and I LIKE it.” As you all know, I’m a irksome little shit who deserves punishment often. Sometime soon I want to try alternating spanking and fucking, mmmm!
There’s a picture on Spanking.com’s home page right now that I find incredibly hot - scroll down to see the “Wizard of Ass Productions” still of two girls in skimpy Catholic schoolgirl outfits doublestacked on some mean bastard’s lap. One of the woman’s hair is damp, as if she has been through quite a bit…
And of course check out the Spanky Spanky video. Doesn’t it look like such fun?!
- The Beautiful Kind
June 14th, 2007 at 9:38 am
too many bad memories of being spanked as a child to find any interest in this fetish at all.
Now that ’skat’ fetish….
June 14th, 2007 at 3:41 pm
I like a good head fuck with my spanking. I like the idea that someone’s going to have sex with me to punish me, whether I want it or not! hehe. What I don’t like is guys who think I want just sharp pain, and thwack it like they’re giving me a surprise pinky-slap in high school. I want a thud, and a rubbing, and a good firm hand, and a telling off! A bit of pain is good, too, but it’s not really about that, for me.
June 15th, 2007 at 11:11 am
Isn’t it funny that with all my (mostly past) interest in BDSM porn, I’ve never actually tried spanking? I just don’t want to look like a complete pervert and ask for it. Any ideas on a classy way to request it? Plus, what if it gets misinterpreted and it actually hurts? OMG, that freaks me out.
June 15th, 2007 at 4:35 pm
lolita,
All you had to do was ask me, you know I’m gentle (except for the back thing).
June 15th, 2007 at 5:05 pm
Lolita, use a safe word - mine is “bluebird.”
June 15th, 2007 at 5:20 pm
it would be fun i’m sure, but the pictures don’t do anything for me. they just look like they’re asses got sunburnt.
June 15th, 2007 at 8:47 pm
Mr. A, you and I are usually so busy with straightforward, old-fashioned sex that there hasn’t been any time to discuss all my perverted ideas.
TBK, now that my sex god is reading your blog, there is no more need for me to think how to suggest it. But a safe word sounds like a good idea for switching (ha!) from one activity to another.
Moonbeam, are you still making redneck grammar jokes? Did you mean “their”?
June 15th, 2007 at 9:43 pm
Lolita, I’m always “up” for some perverse pleasure.
June 15th, 2007 at 10:10 pm
My goodness, Mr. A. As much as you like my bottom in just about any position, I’m sure you’d outperform. Will I still be able to teach yoga after the next round?
June 15th, 2007 at 10:20 pm
Lolita, you have a fabulous bottom. You might want to plan for a Monday night spanking so you have a couple of days to recover before your next yoga class. I have a safe word, do you?
June 15th, 2007 at 10:35 pm
Hmm, safe word… how ’bout “monster truck”?
Perhaps we should the discussion away from TBK’s blog, although I’m sure the pervs are enjoying it.
June 15th, 2007 at 10:43 pm
Lolita, my safe word is “marshmallow”. If someone gets off on the thought of me saying marshmallow while you do something unspeakable to me, then so be it.
OK pervs, that’s it. No more spanking anything tonight
June 16th, 2007 at 10:51 am
What a great post! I think my girlfriend needs to be punished
I´ll have to try that alternation of spanking and fucking on her. Thanks for the idea, TBK.
June 22nd, 2007 at 11:58 am
good lord, i noticed the grammatical error after hitting submit. but alas, there was no way to take it back (short of emailing tbk, which i almost did). then i figured you’d all think it was intentional, knowing my perfectionist tendencies and all…