Manj’s Anal Sex Tips
Filed under: Eros - May 25, 2007 @ 7:53 am
My friend Manj left this as a comment, but it deserves an entry!
My own personal good tips for anal sex list:
* Of course, use lots of lube (probe is the best ever).
* Give lots of stimulation in the general area first. Don’t go straight for insertion. Move lubed fingers around, and press and stroke rather than poking or prodding.
* Go slooooowly.
* When the head of the penis is in, just wait. Move in a gently rocking motion, rather than thrusting or pushing. Have him push his penis down, i.e. towards your vagina, instead of up towards your tailbone. Have him move his penis side to side a little bit.
* When you want it further in, push out like you’re (and there really isn’t a nice way to talk about doing a poo) going for a large dump. This makes the muscles on all the overlapping sphincter muscles relax in unison (it’s when they don’t relax that it hurts). This is a secret trick!BUT
* Don’t feel like you have to do it! Don’t do it so you can achieve “having done anal sex!” Don’t do it because somebody else wants to fuck you in the arse and you’re half-hearted!
* Only do it because you WANT to - you like how it feels (or think you will) or you love the naughty idea of it (etc) and would like to try it out.Have fun, ladies and lads!
May 25th, 2007 at 10:51 am
Holy Saint Santorum!!!
HIGH risk behavior.
Buckle up/down and Drive Safe.
May 25th, 2007 at 3:04 pm
I never understood the allure of anal. It seems so gay.Some women report as much or more sexual pleasure from rear entry as vaginal sex, much to the discombobulation of neuropathologists like Freud. The smooth muscles of the anal sphincters relax in response to steady pressure. It makes sense to acclimate to anal by insertion of the pinky during coitus in simulation of Double Penetration. Which reminds me of the Sicilian handshake: pinky in anus, fingers in vagina, and thumb manipulation of the clitoris. Crikey that is one fine ass, thanks for the glimpse.
May 29th, 2007 at 8:17 am
Is this TBK’s ass? It is beautiful! That Sicilian handshake sounds interesting…I wonder if my new lady friend will like it?
May 31st, 2007 at 7:26 am
Great tips, Manj! Thanks for sharing.