One Bad Apple Spoils the Bunch
Filed under: Eros - April 16, 2007 @ 10:59 am
Once I went to a small swinger party and one obnoxious guy was present. Since there were only four couples, I thought it would be rude to ignore just the one guy, so I had sex with him right off the bat to get it out of the way so I could enjoy the rest of my evening.
Big mistake. Um, in retrospect, what’s wrong with a polite “no thank you” ? Stupid me!
As soon as it was over, he leered in my ear, “I’m gonna fuck you alllll night long.”
And he did. UGH.
When he finally tried to stick it in without a condom (he got drunker as the night went on), I finally had enough and left.
I won’t ever let myself be railroaded like that again. Not to mention that I reinforced his boorish behavior. Fuck, I could have gotten a disease from trying to be polite! I’ve learned to be more assertive and get what I want out of the situation, not cater to others. The women are the golden keys to the whole thing anyway.
April 17th, 2007 at 7:18 am
“I could have gotten a disease from trying to be polite!”
Ah, we women get ourselves into so much trouble by trying to be polite. I’m glad you stood by your guns.
April 19th, 2007 at 10:27 am
A disease would have been the least of your worries.. it could have lead you to your death.